Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Joseph's Posts

After Hospice

On August 31, 2010, my mother passed away on what was an otherwise unremarkable afternoon.  Hospice had accurately predicted her last day of life and my family was there with her, as I held her hand during her last few breaths.  It was a day of mixed feelings, some grief and some relief.  The sadness of mom's passing was tempered by... Read moreChevron

Dementia - When The Angels Come

This day has been coming for a long time.  The closer it got, the less aware that mom seemed about it's arrival.  Mom has suffered with vascular dementia for about two years.  This type of dementia has it's challenges, but appears to be less damaging than Alzheimer's.  There are no "good dementias", but clearly some types are... Read moreChevron

When Life's End Nears

My mother has had the symptoms of dementia for two years.  In the beginning, it was mild and manageable.  The dementia occurred in the aftermath of a stroke that might have gone unnoticed, except for the slight sag in the corner of her mouth.  Other symptoms developed as time passed and mom grew tired sooner in the afternoon. ... Read moreChevron

Diagnosis - Failure To Thrive

Sadly, everyone has to face an end of life scenario at some point(s) in time.  It may be a parent, a sibling, a friend, a spouse, or it may be your own life that needs to be prepared for an exit strategy.  My mother has developed a gradual trend of weight loss for each month of this year.  Her... Read moreChevron

Caregivers - Sunshine in an Otherwise Overcast Existence

This is my 20th and possibly final SharePost.  There apparently isn't much of a male presence here that can benefit from my experience.  I had hoped that there might be others to share with, who like myself, were seeking the male perspective on dealing with the illness of dementia in a loved one.  Men apparently internalize... Read moreChevron