lost515's SharePosts Information and opinions on health from lost515 at HealthCentral.com. HealthCentral.com is one of the top health destinations on the Web, with more than 35 condition-specific, wellness and general health Web properties. http://www.healthcentral.com/profiles/c/462669/index http://www.healthcentral.com/profiles/c/462669/rss self application/xml en-us 15 lost515's SharePosts 120 19 http://www.healthcentral.com/images/hc_logo_sm.gif http://www.healthcentral.com/profiles/c/462669/index http://www.healthcentral.com/depression/c/462669/116144/depression Thu, 15 Jul 2010 22:02:27 -0400 lost515 I could use some more advice...trying to understand Loved one w Depression's actions Hi.   Still looking for help in coping. my fiance has been depressed for over a year now. His counseling has been all but inefffective. He has confided in me that he has come to terms with the fact things will not be better until he makes some significant changes and has told me he would come to live with me and allow me to help him. Yet, each time he says he is making plans it is always after my trip to Russia, after one more trip, after... http://www.healthcentral.com/depression/c/462669/116144/depression http://www.healthcentral.com/depression/c/462669/105516/moving Thu, 04 Mar 2010 20:38:24 -0500 lost515 Moving on Hi Again,   I have written a post before about this, but am still unsure how to proceed. My fiance has been depressed over 2 yrs and it continued to get worse. He finally admitted it and sought help a few months ago. I have tried to be patient with him, but he continually tells me he is. "no good" that "this isnt good for you" "this isnt fair to you" "you need to move on."   He tells me he... http://www.healthcentral.com/depression/c/462669/105516/moving http://www.healthcentral.com/depression/c/462669/104716/depressed Wed, 24 Feb 2010 05:48:22 -0500 lost515 How to deal with a depressed loved one Hi,     My fiance has been suffering from Depression and Panic Disorder. When he finally confided in me I felt he had turned the corner, then he became more isolative and withdrew more and more. He became so easily irritated that it began to take a toll on me and my own mental health. He pushes me away and tells me how much he loves me, yet tells me its best for me to just move on. We have a long distance relationship and I am just... http://www.healthcentral.com/depression/c/462669/104716/depressed