Hi there,

I just wanted to say that I appreciate the directness in your response to the "Summer Fun" post. I mean, we are all rolling in money, right? The thing is, ChronicPainConnection.com is a commerical site and they have sponsors. I look at all posts by their experts in a suspect way: they are usually trying to sell us a product or a recommend a drug. I wonder if you'll get a reply from the author of the summer list?

Summer is a challenge with people out and about and active. There are so many things that I can't do. I have a long lanudry list of pains similar to you and, though I love the heat of summer, it is a season that is rife with emotional struggle for me. Summer fun is often elusive, but I do seek it out. Pacing is the key, as always. And being creative. I wish you all the best in managing your pain and seeking warm weather wonder this coming summer.

Regards,

Donimo

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I have to admit that my jaw dropped when I read this expert's ideas for summer fun.  I'm sure she means well (?), but  she is the poster doctor for the problems that we face---she is totally clueless.  I feel  sorry for her patients.  And the picture of her lounging around, looking happy and pain free--they will never get it.  I'm glad I have people like you.  I, too, was waiting for someone to slam me for my post, but I just couldn't let her summer fun ideas go unchallenged and had to back you on your response.  I had planned to work until I was at least 70 and would give 10 years of my life to be able to do that.  I have dreams every night that I am back at work and then wake up in the morning to face the ugly reality.   

Hang in there my friend,