Friday, June 01, 2012

Happy's Posts

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Hi there,   as the rocky road of life with herpes continues, there are always little challenges to consider as I learn to live with it. Being accepted by my boyfriend when I told him was a big deal for me. We have a great relationship and I am truly thankful that i've found someone so accepting.   Something I really enjoyed... Read moreChevron

tired of saying the wrong thing

Hi everyone,   This seems to be the way my dating life goes: I meet a fun guy that I'd like to get to know better, about a month of dating goes by and I figure it is time to tell him that I have genital HSV-1. I tell him and then he runs. In general, I'm fairly calm when I explain it, answer any questions etc. I have been immensely lucky... Read moreChevron

Sharing some hope

Hi everyone, After having some time to think and get my head on straight (again) I decided to delete my last sharepost and post this one to pass along some hope. Last weekend, I told the guy I was dating that I have herpes. He reacted well at the time but is now treating me like i have the plague. I saw him once since I told him and he... Read moreChevron

Nothing hurts more than the emotional pain...

well, I thought I was getting back on track. Starting life over with my new challenge of herpes. I thought I was going to be ok, and believed everyone when they said that if someone can't accept the fact that you have herpes then they dont deserve you. Well...I dont really know anymore. I wasnt looking for love, when my ex (one that I was madly in... Read moreChevron

A brave new world...all over again

How you interpret, cope and move on from difficult experiences shows character, bravery and levels of maturity. When I found out I had herpes (back in November 2008) I thought my life was over. When I told my boyfriend he was hostile and unsupportive. After a week, he came around to "deal with this together" but anytime I asked questions, I got... Read moreChevron