I'm a queit respectful person,that is living with incontinence,and dependent on what the industry has for people like me.

My occupation (Sales) really can work me over,deadlines,intense negoitions,and the wear and tear that goes along with.

I enjoy gardening and if I could pick a special flower it would be a wild flower.

Most of all I enjoy my wonderful UNDERSTANDING WIFE.She supports me 100%

I have dealt with incontinence for sometime.My Mother has told me that my Father did and cousins did also.The first part of my life it was only at night that I needed to prepare,but in 1993,changes begin,I was working long hours under stiff deadlines,and not taking care of myself,my incontinence was worsening to the point of losing daytime control.I was diagnose by a Urologist as having mixed incontinence,but no really good reasons,he said,I quote,"some people have  incontinence their whole life.

Currently its much different,I have bladder and urethra issues,impotent,I do feel,I waited to long.

Update: I have a decompensated bladder,with bladder retention,and bladder neck issues,congential bladder muscle dysfuntion,Urologist has put me on longterm Foley cathing.He feels I should have a bladder neck insision.I'm not sure yet.