Need Help,Can't figure it out

sypmtoms

-Redness on head of penis, though it has become a bit patchy

skin looks irritated if you stretch it, but not sure what is normal and not since i have never looked that hard at my penis ever before.

-Redness extending from the urethra hole on topside of head

-the skin around the top of the urethra opening looks like it is being pulled in if that makes any sense think maybe it has to do with the white dot mentioned below(infection?).

-Little white spot can be seen if i open the urethra(not sure how long but only noticed about 3 weeks ago)

-Pain in head of penis, seems to be along the urethra tube(actually kind of hard to exactly place)

-Uretha opening is very sensitive.

Been taking:

-A.M.-Vitamine E, Daily Centrum, 1000mg Cranberry, 500mg Saw Pallmetto, 100mg Selenium, 50mg Zinc, 500mg Naproxen.

-P.M.-1000mg Cranberry, 500 mg Saw Pallmetto, 500mg Naproxen.

And have been putting "Thera Neem Leaf and Oil" on head several times a day.

I have been doing this for 2weeks and it has helped the pain and it seems like the redness,pain and irritation/sensitivity is less. Last 2 days though head seems to be more sensitive again. Any other help or advice? The one thing that i haven't been getting is any urinating issues like i have read about on this site. Not burning or urges to pee that i can really tell.

Any help would be much appreciated. Don't want this to be taking my life over. I pray to feel normal again. There used to be a time when i didn't even know my penis was even there and now it seems like i am aware of it always.

It has been 3 months since that night. What is this? I can't think it is an std...plus the screens have been all neg. Is it herpes? But that doesn't last this long, no symptoms? If it is a prostate issue could it be from the intense masterbation thing? What else can i try?