I get up at least three to four times everynight especially toward the morning hours. It's kicking my ass. I went to the urologist and I wasn't in his office 5minutes and he said I should have a roto root. I know what that is because my Dad had that done and it ruined the rest of his life with bleeding off and on. I also know another man that had it done and it didn't do a thing for him. The two things that are most bothersome are the inability to start to urinate and the nocturia. I also know that I am not emptying all the way. There has to be some knid of solution so that I can get my life back to normal. Afraid to travel etc. My age is 66.