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Sunday, February 01, 2009
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Diagnosed last summer, ups and downs are surprising: sometimes occurring at the strangest times. I think I look pretty healthy which leaves others to think this is "all in my head" ra. But my fingers look and feel like cigars and my fatigue makes me sleep A LOT, especially after a work week.   ...
  1. Sounds so familiar
    StarHill13
    Sunday, February 01, 2009 at 09:23 AM

    I can't really give you any advice, but I can commiserate. I'm also on Plaquenil, and it doesn't feel (this week) like it's doing anything. I'm so stiff and achy- my shoulders don't move very well, my knees hate me when I stand up, my ankles ache, and my hip hurts when I walk too far. The problem is, I have so many ups and downs, that it never seems to be acting up when I see the doctor! My husband said I should keep a journal, to help me remember to tell the doctor when I WAS hurting, even though I might be good on my appointment day. Journaling may sound corny, but he's right; I need to, especially because my appointments are always in the afternoon, and I feel better then.

    After 3 months on Plaquenil, I said it wasn't doing anything, but the rheumatologist told me to give it more time. At the 6 month mark, I had been feeling good for about a week, so I sid it might be working, so she kept me on it. Now, once again, I feel like crap.

    Also, my doctor doesn't want to give me anything stronger if it's not really necessary, because of the horrible side effects of these drugs (including cancer). She took x-rays of my hands, and I have no joint damage in my hands, so I guess that means my disease isn't that advanced. But, I must be unusual in that all of my large joints hurt, and my hands and feet don't bother me much. I think she doesn't really understand how much my hips, shoulders, and ankles hurt, because she sees no damage to my hands.

    I, too, have tried the fish oil, and glucosamine/chondroitin, turmeric, etc. Not doing anything.

    Also, I can relate to sleeping a lot, whenever I can. I work 40 hours/wk, and have to take a nap every day after work. It is so hard to get through the day at work, I feel like I'm going to just pass out, and sometimes I wish I would so people would take me seriously. The fatigue is my #1 complaint. The fatigue is even worse than the pain. I have told my rheumatologist and my g.p. both how I'm tired all the time, and I feel like I was brushed off, or maybe there's nothing they can do. It made me wonder if something else is horribly wrong with me, but after reading your post I see that there is someone else with RA who is just as tired. Anyone with any advice on a medicine that actually helps the fatigue, please let me know, and I'll ask my doctor about it. Of course all of the commercial ads say they help the fatigue, but if I heard it from someone actually taking the drug it would be believable. No one else in the world understands how hard it is to be this tired; they think we're just being lazy.

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    Thanks and hope this helps us both
    Amy
    Monday, February 02, 2009 at 09:42 PM

    Hi there,

    Thanks so much for sharing your experiences with me. It's always reassuring to know that you're not alone and not losing it on top of it all.

     

    Take a look at the other two responses here because they both have had some good experiences on other meds. I'm bringing these meds up to my rheumatologist when I see him on Wednesday because, like you, the plaquenil is just not working for me with the fatigue. If I do start on something else, I will certainly let you know. Anything to help each other through this physical bummer. Take good care...

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    Enbrel works for me!
    Ellen
    Saturday, February 21, 2009 at 03:26 PM

    Hi Amy,

    I have been on Enbrel for almost 4 years.  I had high liver enzymes, so methotrexate and all the nasty liver-affecting drugs were out (I was actually relieved).  I had some emotional ups and down at first - but when I thought about it they seemed almost to be replays of earlier times in my life.   I had a couple of attacks of anxiety, but they were understandable under the circumstances - I was nervous the first time giving myself a shot, trying to make sure I did it all OK>  It's not really difficult.  Some women have their husbands do it, if they are too needle-shy.  I like the Enbrel because I can set the schedule myself, I can hold off if I think I"m coming down with something, and I don't have to travel to the rheumatologist's office (70 miles away) and miss a day of work, as I would if I were on Remicade (did 2 infusions, didn't like it, had a lot of itching).  I do get a little bit of 'injection site reaction' - a little redness and itching, but Benadryl cream pretty much takes care of it - it's minor.  I have had a slight rash on one leg, not sure whether it was related. (I thought yes, my dr. thought no.)  I put antibiotic cream on it, scrubbed it - off and on, finally pretty much gone.  Didn't spread or anything.  Some folks have more of that.  I starting feeling better within a week.  If you can, try it  Best of luck -

    Ellen

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    Liz
    Sunday, February 01, 2009 at 09:53 PM

    I was diagnosed last March.  I have had similar troubles w/ the flares and fatigue.  My first suggestion is to make sure you have a good Rheumatologist. Ask him or her about some of the newer prescriptions; I have had great results from using Enbrel( I can carry a bag of groceries with my fingers now, and couldn't before... I'm sure you have those days too.)  I have recently found for the fatigue side that I have low potassium, and almost as soon as I increased my potassium intake I started to have more energy.  Being on a regular schedule helps w/ fatigue also.  Again run everything through a trustworthy Rheumatologist.  

    The pain and fatigue is NOT just in your head.  Try to find someone older who has RA who can almost mentor you through this tough first year.  It helps having support of people who know what you're going through.

    Best of luck to you

    Peace

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    Thanks for your suggestions re: rheumy
    Amy
    Monday, February 02, 2009 at 09:30 PM

    Many thanks for your suggestions and comments - I made an appointment straight away with my rheumatologist for Wednesday. I'll tell him about the fatigue and joint swelling (the plaquenil isn't doing it for me). If he doesn't let me try another med, I'll be shopping for another rheumatologist. You've help give me hope that there is a way of life above and beyond being wiped out and full of pain. Thanks and good wishes your way.

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  3. Doctor
    GIGII
    Monday, February 02, 2009 at 03:45 AM

    Have been living with RA for almost 22 years now. I am 38 years old. First thing is first, Run do not walk to find a doctor you are comfortable with. I have seen the same doctor for 20 years! My insurance changed and could not see her. We worked out a payment plan and I still see her. I am also on Enbrel yes, it does have side effects and some are bad, you just have to weigh the pro's and con's. I could not get out of the bed without it. I have been on EVERYTHING that there is and Enbrel has worked the best. Ask your Doctor about Provigil for the fatigue. It has helped me alot. I work 3rd shift, I know that it is not the best shift to work but I have to pay the bills. I can be awake at night, and in the morning I can go home and go to sleep.  Most people will take it in the morning. Be patient. learn to pace yourself. I know how hard it is to hurt and stay worn out. let me know what you find out

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    re: Doctor
    Amy
    Monday, February 02, 2009 at 09:51 PM

    Thanks for speaking of your experiences, especially since you've been through this struggle for so many years. The Enbrel has me intrigued because I know so little about it. What have been your main side effects from it? Please do share, if you don't mind.

     

    Also, what are some red flags I should be aware of in regards to a rheumatologist? Just thought I'd throw that your way, especially since I will be seeing him on Wednesday.

     

    Thanks so very much again, for your help. Best to you, my friend.

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    re: re: Doctor
    gigi
    Tuesday, February 03, 2009 at 01:09 AM

    I would find some one that is going to first treat you with respect. I work in the medical field and believe me, some doctors do not know the meaning of the word. Remember you are paying them! Doctors are not God but you Are a person and need to be treated like one. How aggestive do you want to get? Find a doctor that you and he/she have a plan on how aggestive you want to be. Pain Management and how to treat that is a issue that you MUST  talk about. Be open and let them know if you have pain.Let them know when you hurt, how much you hurt on the pain scale 1 thru 10 10 being the worst.  I did go to a doc when my insurance changed and she would not address my pain. That was a issue for me and my husband. I made a payment plan for my old doctor. This is my 3rd time on Enbrel, I have been on everything. There is nothing that has come out for me to try. I always go back to Enbrel. the first time within a month I was feeling great! The best I felt in years!  This time it is keeping the swelling down. Enbrel had only been out a short time the 1st time I started it, It gave

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    gigi
    Tuesday, February 03, 2009 at 01:29 AM

    me more get up and go! Of course there is the lymphoma issue, but that is very rare. my first time around  my shot site caused a lot of itching. Now they tell you after you get it out of the fridge to get it room temp then inject. I always before just took it out of the fridge and injected. Headaches can occur after injection but go away pretty quick. Other than that I have not had too many side effects. Remember You DO NOT have to do anything that you do not want to do.  I work 3rd shift in a Emergency Dept and on the move. I do have alot of pain issues and after 21 years finally gave in to going to see a pain mangement doctor. Not that I really wanted to,  I have a wonderful, caring arthritis doc and always trust her. we discuss everything to pain, stress, marriage , jobs and how this always fits in to RA patients. I will be a battle some days, I have them alot, but hang in there, EXERCISE SWIM AS MUCH AS YOU CAN AND PRAY, PRAY PRAY. LET ME KNOW HOW YOUR APPT GOES. MUCH LOVE

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  4. fatigue
    Lisa Hawthorne
    Thursday, February 05, 2009 at 01:15 PM

     I have the same story, except I have fibromyalgia & the symptons of RA. Yet the test are always inconclusive. 

      I have taken a variety of drugs and have had bad reactions to Lyrica( I lost part of my hearing) Mirapex ( I stayed up for 4 straight days) the anti-inflamitory drugs cause me to have awful reflex but really help joint pain ( lots of antacids).

      Good Drugs:Provigil will help with sleepness during the day, Cymbolta helps with pain neuropathy and really helps with the depression part of it. Besides a good RA doctor, I have found that a supportive Psychiatrist has been the best help. He explains to me how drugs afdfect my brain and when I have a reaction to a drug he has been able to solve the question as to why? He does not judge me like our families & friends do. They do not know & can not know how we feel. I have learned not to let their comments bother me. My cooment to them is :If you don't like the way I'm doing it ,fix it yourself.They stopped the comments.

     Many days I feel great and do as much as I can ( I do to much then)because with me I will have days on end that I to find it hard to get out of bed. I am late to work , the housework over takes me, the laudry room becomes a mess on those weeks. 

     One important thing to do is talk to your boss about the disease make sure they understand the effects of the disease on your body.  Knowledge is valuable. I come in extra early when I do feel good and try to tackle every job he has for me First. Sometimes, on my lunch hour, I find that a short nap helps.

    Also, try to have hobbies. I know it sounds crazy but I read, teach sewing, sew for other people & do crafts. Why do I do this ? Never give in. Push hard and back at the disease.

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    re: fatigue
    Amy
    Thursday, February 05, 2009 at 06:50 PM

    Hi Lisa, your situation is tough because you have the fibro situation to deal with as well. I appreciate the info about all the meds you've tried - knowledge is power, as you say. I especially like your response to those who don't understand ("do it yourself then")! Finding others like you on this board helps us all realize these illnesses are the pits and they are not simply "in our heads."

     

    I am blessed - I worked per diem so I have schedule flexibility. I do have to start by 6:00 a.m., so that's sometimes very tough. The weather is bitterly cold here and that makes joints feel even worse.

     

    I think it's really good to have a psychiatrist in the background, especially to answer some of these chemical questions and, if anything, to have someone to bounce frustrations off of that can offer constructive suggestions. We are the only ones that know what it feels like to make it through a flare or tough day/week. But at least we can share on here.

     

    Best to you and, like you said, we won't give up or give in.

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    re: fatigue
    sarah
    Thursday, February 05, 2009 at 08:07 PM

    I too have RA , and fibromyalgia. My test results are always inconclusive except my c-reactive protein and my sed rate are always elevated. I have been on every drug out there with little success. I tried Remicade for a year, Enbrel for a year, Orencia, Humira and any others on the market. I am now on Rituxan- I have had  two rounds of infusions and am due for my third next week. I take 20 mgs of methotrexate and 3 mgs of folic acid.

    Exercise is an important part of my life but am unable to do too much  because of overdoing it will put me into some kind of flare. so I have gained over 50 lbs since being diagnosed 4 years ago.

    I eat extremely healthy foods- no junk foods, lots of fruits and vegetables and only organic meats and dairy.

    If anyone has any bright ideas I would appreciate them.   I try to keep busy as I am a seamstress with my own business. But  it is hard to get up in the morning! but when the fatigue gets me I can take a break where most people can't.

    Good luck to all!

     

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    re: re: fatigue
    amy's compassion
    Thursday, February 05, 2009 at 09:29 PM

    You have really been through a lot since your diagnosis. How do you keep going?

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    re: re: re: fatigue
    sarah
    Friday, February 06, 2009 at 07:10 AM

    Sometimes I don't want to keep going but with the support of my family and friends and a really good doctor, I just pick myself up and try again.

    My weight loss is the biggest issue for me right now. I know that if I can lose the weight then I will feel better and my RA will be less intrusive. But because of my RA I can't seem to get moving..... so it is an ongoing battle that I try to conquer everday!

     

    If you are not already you should be on at least one medicine that is proven to slow down joint destruction. You should talk to your Dr and if he's not willing to listen then find a new one.

    Good luck.

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    re: re: re: re: fatigue
    Lisa Hawthorne
    Friday, February 06, 2009 at 09:09 AM

    I think the weight gain has been the worst part of it. I am just so tired all the time and I did go to a gym for 6 months ( with a trainer)and at the end of 6 months I had more problems than ever, especiallly with my back.Which caused me to go back on prednisone and I absolutely hate swimmming . I am scared of water.

    I did not have a weight problem until I took so many different med's & so much prednisone. I was on it for close to 2 years because of some type of lung problem ( which they could not figure out what it was)in which I coughed 24/7 for 6 months and the only thing that stopped it and cleared my lungs was the prednisone & other steriods. It was a nightmare. Now, I know that as soon as I cough more than 3 times I am in the Dr office & they start treatments. This year has been alot better no coughing. But I just got off preidsone for my hearing loss. Of course my joints are great now, but my stomach hurts, so we all take the good with the bad.

    I think of my good days as something to be thankful for.

    I research the med's now before I take them. I have found that I am the type of person who has the strangest reactions to drugs. My regular RA is great and we just laugh & try something new.  

    Laugher  helps and believe it or not babysitting my nephew helps. It makes me feel renewed in spirit to see his eager eyes when we play with real tools and hammer nails in boards. I get down in the floor with him and play( His mother has really bad RA)Take care & laugh at something today.

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    re: re: re: re: re: fatigue
    sarah
    Friday, February 06, 2009 at 09:48 AM

    Laughter is the best medicine! My husband actually put on my screen saver "Smile and remember to take care of yourself" what a great message that we all sometimes forget!

    Have you ever been tested for Lupus? I know lung issues can be a symptom of lupus as can joint pain.

    Also, I was on Cymbalta for several years andthat really helped my fibro. You might try that..

    Good luck.

     

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    re: re: re: re: re: re: fatigue
    Lisa Hawthorne
    Friday, February 06, 2009 at 10:54 AM

    My RA & Lupus test are always inconclusive and have been for years.  I can't live with out my cymbalta and I take a really low dose.

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    Amy
    Friday, February 06, 2009 at 09:12 PM

    Hi Lisa, can you tell me about the Cymbalta? How does it help you and how do you take it (pill, injection)? Thanks and blessings.

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    sarah
    Friday, February 06, 2009 at 10:03 PM

    Hi Amy- I'm not Lisa but I thought I would tell you about my experience with Cymbalta!

    It comes in capsule form and it is given in doses of 20,30, 60 mg(I think)

    I started on 30mg then went up to 60mg. I took it once a day with very little side effects. (Except for the sexual side effects rather the lack thereof)

    It is my understanding that Cymbalta was developed originally for diabetic neuropathy, which as you probably know is burning pain in the extremities due to nerve misfiring in diabetics. They figured it also worked on Fibromyalgia patients as well as for depression.

    In my opinion it is a miracle drug- I wish there were more out there like this one!

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    re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: fatigue
    LIsa Hawthorne
    Monday, February 09, 2009 at 12:41 PM

    Amy,

    I take only 40 mg capsule of Cymbalta a day. I have not had any bad side effects and the pain I had in my neck & left arm stopped. But if you start taking this med, Don't miss a dose & do not stop it abruptly, it can have nasty withdrawal symptons.Take care

    Lisa

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    Amy
    Friday, February 06, 2009 at 09:16 PM

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    Amy
    Friday, February 06, 2009 at 09:08 PM

    I know what you mean about the weight issue. It's like some sort of vicious cycle: you need to move to help keep the weight down but it either makes you sick or it hurts to move. Prednisone is a godsend for swelling. But it does make you hold weight.

     

    Keep it up, for you and those who value you. You are important.

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    sarah
    Friday, February 06, 2009 at 09:47 PM

    I was on Cymbalta for some time and thought it was WONDERFUL! Then I realzed that along with everything else that my libido got up and left the bulding! I talked with my doctor and he said that was a common side effect and that sexual dysfunction was very normal when taking 60mgs or more of cymbalta.

    So I decided to switch to Wellbutrin. I have been on that for just a few weeks and my fibro has been ok...We will see how this works. Tonight for the first time in awhile the bone tired feeling has come back. But I have been up and going since 5:30 this morning.That is unusual!

    Hopefully we will all be better wih each coming day.....

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    Amy
    Friday, February 06, 2009 at 09:52 PM

    Thanksk for the info on the Cymbalta. My libido is nonexistent anyway...probably because of my joint pain! Hope tomorrow is happy and pain-free for you.

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    sarah
    Friday, February 06, 2009 at 10:06 PM

    I know what you mean.

    Hope you have a good weekend too!

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    Amy
    Friday, February 06, 2009 at 09:08 PM

    I know what you mean about the weight issue. It's like some sort of vicious cycle: you need to move to help keep the weight down but it either makes you sick or it hurts to move. Prednisone is a godsend for swelling. But it does make you hold weight.

     

    Keep it up, for you and those who value you. You are important.

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    have you considered antibiotic therapy?
    Ellen
    Saturday, February 21, 2009 at 03:31 PM

    Hi - I have heard of people who did not respond to standard treatment, and who have done better on antibiotic theory.  There is some evidence that "cell-wall-deficient bacteria" get actually into our immune cells, where they can hide, and send the immune system off-track that way.  Certain antibiotics will work against them, low dose - so they don't become resistant - and over a long period of time.  Several people have told me that it's gradual but does work, slowly, against fatigue and pain.  I will consider it if the Enbrel stops working for me. (I can't take MTX or the other drugs that hurt your liver.)  Just a thought.  Read "The Road Back" about the original doctor who developed the therapy, or go to the website by that name 9www.theroadback.org - or www.cpnhelp.org - or the Marshall protocol.  Several different groups have found success with it.

    Good luck!

    Ellen

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  5. This is harder than it looks
    Jan
    Thursday, February 05, 2009 at 06:54 PM

    Try to hang in there. I was diagnosed about 10 months ago, and was started on Plaquenil and Naprosyn, plus an initial course (about 1 week) of prednisone, which helped.  A few week later, I had another flare, then another round of prednisone.  After that, my rheumatologist decided to try methotrexate plus folic acid.  I've been on that now since September, and haven't had any major problems, just a little thinning of my hair. My dr said he probably should have started the methotrexate earlier, considering I had such a good response to it.  I stay on a regular schedule, balancing exercise and sufficient rest.  I would advise you to find a more understanding doctor who will listen to you.  My doctor's motto is, "I treat the patient, not the lab work (or x-rays)."  I hope this helps.   

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    re: This is harder than it looks
    amy's compassion
    Thursday, February 05, 2009 at 09:26 PM

    Your story is exactly how my treatment began except I'm still on the same regime with constant flares. I would be very willing to try the methotrexate. Maybe it's time to find a different rheumatologist. Thanks for sharing. I wish you the best in your management of this disorder.

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    re: re: This is harder than it looks
    sarah
    Friday, February 06, 2009 at 07:14 AM

    If the plaqunil isn't working it is time for something new! Talk to your doctor and be an advocate for yourself! Smile

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  6. Fatigue
    Brenda Allen
    Friday, February 06, 2009 at 11:17 AM

    I am so glad I read this today.  I am 58 years old, diagnosed about 1 1/2 years ago.  But apparantly have had RA since I was very young, as I have Stage 2 with permanent damage.  As I look back on my life, I can remember times that I am sure I had flare ups and it went undiagnosed.   I feel like my life is over. I used to walk every day, even when I felt bad I could push myself to go, but not now.  I was an aerobic instructor for years, didn't smoke, didn't drink, ate right so that when I got older I would be in good health.  Along comes RA.  I have a hard time walking to my mail box and back.  I honestly hurt all the time.  I take methotrexate, methylprednisolone,cymbalta  and humira injections every week.  The methotrexate affected my liver so I had to cut way back on it.  We are still trying to find the things that work best for me.  I love my Rheumatologist.  He is great!

     

    This week I have had absolutely NO energy.  I could honestly sleep 24 hours a day.  This is probably the worst fatigue I have experienced.  Is there a reason for the severity of the fatigue?  I am contacting my doctor today as fatigue this severe is not usual for me.  I am tired constantly, but never this bad. 

     

    I want one day to be able to put on a pair of nice shoes and walk like a normal person. 

     

    Thanks for all your comments.  They help so much to get information from people like me.

     

    Brenda

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    Brenda's story
    Amy
    Friday, February 06, 2009 at 09:04 PM

    Hi Brenda, your fatigue is incredibly difficult to deal with - I read your post after coming home from work and sleeping six hours. Your post hit a note of familiarity with me. I worked as a personal trainer for many years, didn't smoke/drink, ate well. And here we both are with this unfair disorder. Please take some comfort in knowing that you are not alone in your suffering, sadness and frustration. We all must be the "strong ones" because we're fighting a difficult battle that isn't for wimps.

     

    Please feel free to correspond any time you feel down and bummed. And I in turn will do the same. Blessings your way.

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    re: Brenda's story
    sarah
    Friday, February 06, 2009 at 09:53 PM

    AMEN Amy, this disease is definitely not for wimps!Smile

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    "nice shoes & go for a walk ..."
    Ellen
    Saturday, February 21, 2009 at 03:37 PM

    Hi - I'd settle for the orthotic clunkers I've got, if I could just go for a long walk again! But - the nice shoe comment both resonates and reminds me - my daughter is supposed to be getting married this summer, and I have been steeling myself to wear a long skirt or dress, with my New Balance 926's - that only come in black & white !  Big leather clunkers that save my feet - I've been on orthotices for almost ten years, nary a loafer or heel in sight!  SIgh......I think I've had the RA for a long time too, though just diagnosed in 2004...

    Ellen

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    re: "nice shoes & go for a walk ..."
    amy's compassion
    Saturday, February 21, 2009 at 04:31 PM

    Love it! Hope ya find the shoes for the wedding.

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