I try to remain open to alternative therapies.  One of my requirements when I first went to see my rheumatologist was that she be supportive and open to other ways of approaching treatment. Similarly, I want the same quality in my alternative practitioners-I want them to be accepting of western approaches to treating RA, because I am, and for me, western meds were part of the right choice in helping me gain my life back.

I don’t see that choice as some kind of cop out or weak admittance that I’m at fault for my immune system going haywire. I appreciate that there are many different ways to approach treating RA, and that everyone has both a different experience of the disease and of the treatment. Sharing experiences is important, but respecting other people’s experiences and subsequent choices is also important. Finding the balance between the two can be tricky, but it makes a world of difference.

If RA has taught me anything, it’s that the saying ‘to each his own’ is true. Or in my case, her.