I've used a variety of meds both OTC & prescription, at different time - am curious what helps others.
My 'sleep aids' have included: Benadryl, Ambien (generic, not the 2-layer stuff), Tylenol, Flexeril (cyclobenzaprine, 5 - 10 mg), Elavil (amitriptyline, 5 - 10 mg), Percocet (when all else fails).
There's also some kind of "Sweet Dreams" Japanese tea I got in Montreal that worked so well, it was scary - put me right to sleep. I looked up the ingredients, not sure if I wanted to risk some kind of unexpected interaction with something so potent! There was a plant I had not heard of, and I looked it up, don't have the details with me right now...
Also, Tai Chi, meditation, reading, doing other work I want to do until I get tired (have you ever cut out a sewing pattern at 2 a.m.? or copied music manuscript at midnight?) Sleeping in a different bed. Petting the cat for a while ... Praying for everyone you can think of because 'There must be some reason why I'm not sleeping!'


. The physician's asst in his doctor's office was going to send him for a sleep test (because he sometimes snores as well, has sinus problems, thick neck, etc), but the doctor said, well, try some calcium/magnesium at bedtime. Seems to help quite a bit - not always, but often!
I wish I could find an answer for this question too.... My husband of 36 years has even moved out of our bed because I kept him awake too. My doctor has given me sleeping pills and I have taken them, but they didn't either. Taking them is another worry for me as I'm so afraid of get hooked on them.
Glad to know someone else has the problem too. But sorry we both are in this Sleepless boat together~~