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My husband was diagnosed with RA 14 years ago. Last October we finally made the very difficult decision that he should no longer work full time. Fortunately for us, I have a good full-time job that provides decent health benefits, so I picked up health insurance for our family at that time.
Currently he takes about 10mg prednisone/day, methotrexate, folic acid, and Rituxin. Before the Rituxin, he was on Enbrel for many years until that seemed to stop working about 2 years ago. While the Rituxin seems to control the RA symptoms, he has had a cold virus since mid-September of last year. It is relentless; we've never experienced anything like this in his 14 years of dealing with this illness. It's hard to say where one cold ends and another begins; he's always sick. And as you probably know, any virus can put someone with RA right into bed, which is where he has spent 80% of his time since last September. It's so discouraging. I want to cry (and often do).
The latest "idea" regarding the constant colds comes from his GP who thinks he should try reducing his dose of prednisone (which I guess can lead to secondary infections) and treating the resulting pain with extra doses of NSAIDs or other painkillers. My husband tried doing this right before Christmas but was in so much pain that he stopped--which I appreciated since we've had a lot of crummy holidays due to the RA! Also, we both agreed that it would be better to try this over the summer months when he doesn't work (he's a speech-language pathologist for a local public school).
I just really don't know what the answer is anymore. His quality of life is so shitty, and I just want to run away most of the time. But I don't because I love him, and we still have two kids at home. I try so hard to be understanding, but it is hard when you're working full-time and taking care of the house full-time even though your husband is home in bed most of the time and you wonder why he can't put the laundry away or unload the dishwasher.
Thanks for this website. I'm going try to check in periodically. It helps to read other people's experiences because no one, absolutely no one, who doesn't have RA or who doesn't live with someone who has RA, can possibly understand the ugly nature of this disease and all that it takes away from the individual who has it as well as those who love him/her.
Mary Jo


I had the same problem when I was taking humira and meth I always sick for 2 years straight. I actually stopped taking anything for my arthritis for two months so I could finally get rid of what ever itwas that was tring to kill me. It worked but within 4 months it came right back. I stopped taking humira andswitched to enbrel and maybe get one (if that) sinus infection a year now nothing more than that. I have a friend who had the same problem while she took enbrel and switched to humira and that worked for her. Maybe talk to your rhuemy about switching biologicals (insurance permitted that is). It may do the trick. Good luck and I hope you husband feels better soon.
Hope:
Thank you for your response. I'm beginning to think that my husband does need to consider switching to another biologic. He was doing quite well on Enbrel until it seemed to stop working. It's such a struggle. I thank you for your insights.
MJ