I'm a 58 year old married female who loves life. Being diagnosed with RA was frightening. Thanks to my wonderful husband and daughter supporting me, I'm now in remission. The Humira injections and methotrexate have helped. I swim and do water aerobics 2-4 times per week. Have a wonder 12 year old grandson. I try to stay active, but when fatigue hits, I listen to my body and rest. Sometimes I'm in bed by 8 p.m. I felt guilty about that for a long time, now I'm proud I've learned to listen to my body. It's okay to rest!!!!