i am 2 months with ra can any one tell what can i ask my rheumatologist for the fauigue and do all flares make you feel like you have the flu. i lost a whole week of work and one last thing i am on my feet all day and i feel like they are on fire all the time until this week when i wasnt at work i was able to rest will the meds help with this? i take methylprednis, folic acid, and methorexate. thanks


That does sound like a typical experience of RA in a flare. The good news is that once the medication takes effect - which with methotrexate can take section for people who have been newly diagnosed with RAtwo months or so - you start feeling better. You will likely still experience fatigue for a few days after taking the methotrexate, but the rest of the time, you should be able to lead a fairly normal life. Once your disease is suppressed, that feeling of wearing a soggy, heavy blanket will disappear and your pain levels should become manageable, although you may still need a prescription painkiller. You may want to check out our section for people who have been newly diagnosed with RA for more information and tips and tricks on how to manage the disease. And lastly, keep in mind that your rheumatologist is there to help you, so if you have any questions or concerns about the disease, your experience of it or how long it's taking for the meds to work, ask your doctor.
thank you lene i know i need to make a list of questions for my doctor i always have a list in my head then i forget half of them or all of them because of the questions he ask me. i really hope i start to feel better soon i am getting so depressed. so thanks again.
Weird. I don't know why the link shows up in an unrelated sentence up there....
Depression is a very normal reaction to high doses of a chronic illness and I'd highly recommend that you find yourself a counselor who can help you get through the first grieving, as well as help you develop coping mechanisms that can be useful not just now, but for the rest of your life. Any counselor is probably good, but if you can find one that works in cognitive therapy, go with that. Cognitive therapy helps you change the way you think and the key to survival with RA is being able to switch perspective.
Having a chronic, unpredictable and painful disease like RA makes you feel out of control and not feeling in control make you depressed. It's therefore important to find little ways of asserting control in your daily life - every time you find one way of controlling aspects of your life, you get a step further down the road to feeling in control in general. One of the ways in which you can do this is to prepare an agenda of sorts for your doctor's appointments. Writing down questions and issues you want to discuss this in the days leading up to your appointment ensures that you won't forget anything once you're there and it puts you in control instead of the doctor. And that's the other thing that's important to remember: you are in control. It is your body, your disease and you make the decisions. The doctors are highly qualified experts who advise you, but you are in charge.
I've written a few posts that I think you might find helpful, not just the Beginners Guide to RA series (you can find links to all my posts by clicking on my name), but interviews with the authors of two books in particular that you may want to find that the library. There is the interview with M.E.A. McNeil, author of The First Year - Rheumatoid Arthritis: an Essential Guide for the Newly Diagnosed (an incredibly helpful guide that covers everything) and an interview with Richard Cohen, who wrote Strong at the Broken Places, also a very helpful book, but from a slightly different perspective.
Hang in there. You'll figure out how to live with this.
thanks again i'm gonna look today for someone to talk to. i will call my insurance company. i know i will be okay i just dont know this new person i am and i know i need to be patient. i'm not use to be the one that cant do anything i always took care of everyone and everything and i am so thankful for this site because no understands than you just don't want to talk to any friends or family they dont get it. i have ra in just about all my joints i know i need to be positive and i will be.