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Exercise
Angela53510
Tuesday, May 12, 2009 at 12:23 PMre: Exercise
AmyAria
Tuesday, May 12, 2009 at 01:47 PMDang Angela, you should have written this post! That is truly outstanding. You've really learned the benefit of keepin' on keeping on. Good for you! I really appreciate hearing stories like these because we all have times of feeling uninspired. You really demonstrate that despite obstacles we still have a choice to either give up or to do something, anything towards making our lives better. Just thank you. Really....wow!
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Angela53510
Tuesday, May 12, 2009 at 04:21 PMThanks so much for your reply. I am new to this website, it is nice to actually hear a response. I have to travel 6 hours to see my surgeon tomorrow, because something is wrong with my foot surgery. Having a pity party, I guess, no feeling in my 3rd toe. Wishing I hadn't had the surgery, knowing I had to. Lose/lose. Maybe everything will be okay, that would really help - just a swollen or pitched nerve cutting off sensation. 8 days till pins out. I am not stopping - exercising in bed - got out the heavier leg weights and free weights. Just have to trust that God will work this out for good, I guess. Seriously - really is really okay. Better to use the adverb, anyway! Real good drives me crazy - adverb describes an adverb, not an adjective. So, you are really right! LOL
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AmyAria
Wednesday, May 13, 2009 at 01:07 PMThat's REALLY nice of you. Oh and by the way, "real good" isn't allowed in my house. I'm a grammer cop so when the kids feel like torturing me they LOVE to tell me that "Dad is more funner than you." Ugh! Gets me every time!
Regarding pity parties. We are ALL entitled from time to time. That's part of what this site is all about, so feel free. I've been thinking about your trip to the surgeon today. I sincerely hope you get some good news or at least a positive direction to move in. Write us a post and let us know how it went, k?
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Angela53510
Wednesday, May 13, 2009 at 08:23 PMWell, I guess I got good news. He says as long as I don't have an infection, fever, and can tolerate the pain (If I have to take the pain killers, then do it), I should be okay. I couldn't figure out what happened. It was going perfectly for three weeks, and then in a couple of minutes it went from tingly to numb. He suggested there might be an RA nodule lodged between the pin and the joint, since I was off my meds for 2 weeks, and was having lots of flares. That would make the most sense. He said I can take one naproxyn, to see if it goes away. Not likely with me - my flares take weeks to subside. Still, it is worth a try, in lieu of a pain killer. 7 days till the pins out. He says that will probably help the most.
Then 2 weeks of healing the holes, and I get to walk, garden and take physio. I am not even counting on biking soon. I can't believe I lost a whole summer of biking. I should have timed this for winter, but he had a space to take me, on one of his rheumatoid patient days, so it was then or never. I had already been to him 5 years earlier, and not had surgery, so I didn't want to pull another fast one. That would have been the wrong timing for me in those days- 22 drugs and 80 lbs overweight. I probably could not have gotten out of bed. At least I am in shape enough to get around. Besides, it is brutal here in winter, so i don't know how I could have gone anywhere with a bare toe, and a wheelchair in the snow. I can't walk on crutches, because my other foot won't balance, among other things. So I push the walker around the house, and ride where ever we go.
Hubby is at his wits end making meals! After one week. I should have done this a long time ago, so he could have learned such skills as cooking, folding sheets (he tried to get out of that one - I told him it was just like folding the big 50' x70' tarps he uses to cover his cars and trailers, but smaller and easier. LOL). He still hasn't figured out how to wash out the bathroom sinks. I tried to hire a housekeeper, but he promised he would do it himself to save the $100 a time. That has not worked at all. I realize now how much tidying and cleaning I do. I guess I should enjoy this time, of ordering him around and getting waited on, before it is over.
I was a teacher before I became disabled, and I am very fussy about grammar. My husband isn't, and the kids took after him. Besides, they want to talk like basketball and football players! (The boys, anyway)
Angie
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Biking
Lisa Emrich
Tuesday, May 12, 2009 at 09:47 PMMy rheumatologist had been on me to exercise more and lose weight. Well, I'm on the exercising bit, but the weight hasn't exactly dropped off. What I needed to do was request physical therapy from my neurologist to address some balance issues, spasticity, and deconditioning. Best thing I ever did (and continue to do).
Riding the stationary bike has become my knees' favorite exercise. I can't afford to break a sweat, because if I did it means that I've overheated. If I'm overheated (with my case of MS), I can't trust my legs to walk safely sometimes. It increases my risk of tripping and falling.
So stretching, weight resistance machines, stationary bike, treadmill, and Wii have become my preferred forms of exercise. It really does feel good the more it is done.
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Kelly Young
Tuesday, May 12, 2009 at 10:26 PMHi Amy, I hope this works out for you. I'll gladly cheer you on. But from the sidelines.
I wonder whether you know that there are those of us with an opposite problem? My dad was a USMarine. I always loved keeping myself strong and showing my kids my muscles. Doing push ups at bedtime made me smile. Sit ups were fun if I was watching TV. Running on the beach was my favorite thing in the world. Weight training - now that's a real thrill.
Then, I woke up one day disabled. Within a couple of months the RA had reached every joint. Since then, I have never had one hour without extreme pain and disability. If I cannot lift a plate to wash dishes, then I can't lift a dumbell.
As soon as I could get a diagnosis, I went on the strongest meds. I inject myself at home - very high doses. I'm doing all that I can. I remember telling my doctor how worried i was that my muscles would become atrophied from such extreme stiffness.
Amy, I would love to go for a walk with my dog. My dog was dying and I could not take care of him or hold him any more because of RA. The details are too horrible to share here. But, it was heart wrenching that, because of RA, I could not hold him at the end of our 19 years together. Since he died a year ago, my little boy asks me constantly for a new dog. I can't take care of a dog, so I have to tell my son, "Momma will get better and then we can get a puppy. And you will get older so you can help me." I could not even take care of my son without the help of my teenagers.
My dream for a long time has been to have a standard poodle, Amy. The picture of your puppy reminds me of the apricot one I had as a kid. Have fun with him.
Hope we can still be friends, Kelly
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AmyAria
Wednesday, May 13, 2009 at 01:22 PMWe absolutely can be friends Kelly. I'm sorry that you are having such a struggle right now. This disease and it's ability to chip away at our lives can be devastating, and I never want to minimize that. Still, I've found that sharing with others on this site can be extremely helpful. Where else can you crow about being able to lift a carton of milk? We've also been known to fantasize about using cattle prods on people that say ignorant things.....you know, for educational purposes. I hope that you too can find comfort in this community no matter what challenges you may be experiencing.
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ComingToGripsWithRA
Tuesday, October 13, 2009 at 12:47 PMThe entire post and responses were wonderful! I love just love your sense of humour...my favorite quote from your post is "I'm quite proud that I remain rather immature"! You remind me of myself in some ways!
I helps to read about experiences and suggestions. I have been reluctant to get back into the exercise mode for fear of injuring my joints (I've never been a huge fan of voluntary sweating...at least not since my teens). Last night I got back on my Wii Balance Board for the first time in 2.5 months and discovered that I can still do a lot of things! I put in 20 minutes of mixed exercise and I am so proud of myself! I even got my hubby back on it too and he called me today and asked if we would do it again tonight. He gets a lot more exercise on a daily basis but is doing this with me to help keep me motivated and so I enjoy it. It's something we can do together and it keeps me going since I'm competitive! :o)
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KA
Monday, October 19, 2009 at 03:50 PMLast Wednesday the doctor told me I had RA at the tender age of 31. It all started with my thumb. I thought it was broken, the pain was so bad. Then it subsided after a couple of days and I ignored that incident thinking that I had banged it or something. Then my shoulder acted up and I thought "wow, what A/C draft put me out of commission!?" That too went away after 5 days, some Vicodin, and a muscle relaxant. Then my fingers started up and I knew (finally, what a moron am I?) that something was wrong. I got a new doctor, one who wouldn't ignore me when I complained, and she did some blood work and said that my body was highly inflamed. (my husband never knew how hot I was!) She told me to get a rheumatologist; I have an appointment this wednesday and I'm hoping for the best. Part of me is hoping that it's a wrong diagnosis and it really is something else where I can take a pill every day and keep the pain at bay. But that's probably denial.
The diagnosis was last Wednesday. The pains started two months ago. I now have pain in 11 joints including my fingers, PLUS all of my toes. I worry I'm progressing rapidly. Is this what you would call a flare??
Advils and Tylenols dull the pain a little, but it's always there. I roll myself out of bed each morning and stand still for about 3 minutes before I can take a step. In the mornings, I walk around like I should really be using a walker. In the afternoons the pain subsides a little. And in the evenings I want to kill myself, the pain is so bad. But, I wonder, as I lose weight, will the flares subside? Will the pain dissipate? Is it because I'm fat!?
Anyway, perhaps I should have written my own post seeing as this reply really isn't a reply. Thank you for sharing your humourous stories about your RA.
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I finally went outside and rode around for 10 minutes. I hated the bike seat, went looking for a better one, ended up with a new bike - low bar so I couldn't fall or trip on it. I worked up to an hour a day 6 days a week, 40 lb weights on the universal. I am in better shape than all my friends who aren't sick. I fell once really badly, hurt my knee and foot. The orthopedic surgeon said, that the best thing I could do was ride long and hard (as long as there was no sharp pain) because the stronger the muscle, the more support for the joint. My foot was another story. I am just recovering from major reconstructive surgery from the accident, and RA damage. I miss riding so much it hurts - I love the endorphins you get from exercising, and was able to get off all my anti-depressants. I am still doing upper body weights, and leg lifts etc. but I am facing the fact it will be along time before I can ride. My ankle is immobile because of the cast, so it is going to require a lot of physio. But I am hopeful.
Besides, my hubby just developed diabetes, and is biting the bullet and learning to exercise. Exercise is also preventative for heart disease etc., etc. God made our bodies to work, to exercise - and that is what works for me.
I urge everyone to get the meds to get the flares under control, and then start slowly and you will be surprised. You may even find, like me, you get your life back.