Don't Lose Yourself to Rheumatoid Arthritis

By Cathee McKeown, Health Guide Wednesday, November 14, 2007
One of the most difficult aspects of having a chronic disease like rheumatoid arthritis is losing your self to the disease. Suddenly your life is about constant pain, doctors' appointments and medications. You wake up each day and wonder, who am I? How did I become this person? You look in the ...
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Anonymous
Daina
11/19/07 9:18am

I've had RA in every joint of my body since I was five. I'm almost 32. My best friend (since I was 13) made me realize something the other day. She was talking about one of her sisters friends who was diagnosed with RA a couple of years ago. This friend was talking about how she couldn't get out of bed one day. My friend was so upset with her. She told me that she knew she didn't feel that bad, because I never felt that bad and I have a pretty severe case. She said that this girl should just butch up and get out of bed and stop complaining.

I realized, I did this to my friend. By not talking about my pain, by just pushing through and grinning and bearing it, I led her to believe that RA isn't as bad as it seems. I made her less compassionate. I'm trying to change that now, but it's so hard when you've been trying to hide everything for so long.

Thank you.

Daina

11/20/07 12:56pm

Cathee I do understand everything you are saying, I've gone through all of it, I wonder all the time, everyday, I find myself racing against my life, I want to live, I am so scared I won't be around for long, for my daughter, my husband, my friends and family, but then I realize I will be ok...

I love your story, I am inspired by it, THANKS!

11/24/07 3:19pm

Cathee,

You have touched my heart deeply. I have been newly diagnosed with RA. I've had osteoarthritis, spondylosis, fibromyalgia and a blood disease for over ten years. My new husband still wanted to marry me...we married this last June;) after dating for ten months. In August I was Diagnosed with RA. It is extremely crippling as you know. My husband is very supportive and loving. As my body is going through changes especially now with the side affect of prednisone (weight gain, puffing out, etc.)  I am feeling very unattractive. As I was just reading your sharepost my husband walked in, you hit the point straight on the head, I couldn't even read your message out loud to him anymore (tears swelling in my eyes and rolling down my cheeks), so he came over and finished reading for us. He said that is something that we both needed to hear, he was just telling me the other night that he loves me for sicker or for poorer...... I just didn't think is was going to be here so quickly....(the sicker part). You are truly a Blessing for us to have found today...I truly needed to hear your words. Thank you very kindly. Take Care & God Bless,

Connie Diller

Anonymous
Anonymous
11/27/07 11:27am
I want to thank all of you for your comments. I write my blogs hoping to connect with you all and it makes me feel so good to know that we can share our feelings. Our true feelings. I think about each and every one of you daily and pray that you have the best day you can. Pain free may not always be an option but optimistic and hopeful is something so important. Keep reading! I really appreciate it.
Anonymous
janellia
1/ 6/09 6:09am

I agree that this chronic disease is more of mental and physical and economic crisis ,my daughter was sufering fro the same disease nad it was very difficult for us to deal with the situation, my daughter has goe through lots of treatment but no result was found even after treatment and drugs were out of our budget so we wre finding it difficult to purchase durgs.then while surfing net i found one online pharmacy <a href="http://www.eshoprx.com/prdlisting.aspx?param=36&cmd=3" title="Arthritis  drugs">eShopRx.com</a> which offers cheapest medicines for this disease.We have gone through the website and found the Pharmacy much more cheaper than any other online pharmacy

Anonymous
janellia
1/ 6/09 6:12am

I agree that this chronic disease is more of mental and physical and economic crisis ,my daughter was sufering fro the same disease nad it was very difficult for us to deal with the situation, my daughter has goe through lots of treatment but no result was found even after treatment and drugs were out of our budget so we wre finding it difficult to purchase durgs.then while surfing net i found one online pharmacy http://www.eshoprx.com/ which offers cheapest medicines for this disease.We have gone through the website and found the Pharmacy much more cheaper than any other online pharmacy

Anonymous
painmgtorRA
1/ 4/10 9:44pm

Did you have prior injuries or illness that brought the RA to manifest later?  If a dr offers a choice between pain mgt and RA dr., how do you determine what to pick?

3/31/10 2:18pm

I was almost 19 years old, a college student, filled with ambition and dreams. I remember exiting the Science Building at the university after one of my classes, on one particular day. My legs, especially my right knee, felt uncharacteristically weak and painful as I descended the stairs. This was the first day of a life-altering condition. The problem with my knee persisted over the next few weeks. I began my search for answers and medical care with my family Internist. He did the basic tests and diagnostics he could do, then fast-forwarded me to an Orthopedic Surgeon for a consultation. I had the doctors perplexed. I was seemingly too young to have arthritis, though my x-rays showed significant changes in my knee joints.This chronic diseases has ghastly taken over my mind emotionally mentally physically and financially. while goggling one day i found a website calledhttp://www.trumedcanada.com/index.aspx where i got my medicine at best priceshttp://www.trumedcanada.com/RX/Bonviva.Ibandronate.aspx now i have over taken my disease and i am happy leading my normal life.

By Cathee McKeown, Health Guide— Last Modified: 06/28/11, First Published: 11/14/07