Lene, I completely agree with you.  A bit of bio-feedback would be helpful.  Can u believe there are no group RA meetings within 60 miles of my home but a million hospitals.  In my experience, I need to talk to someone who understands RA.  Most people including councelors are ignorant about the disease, not being harsh or anything.  Infact, some docs don't either, only rheumys.  I just want a normal life.  Although I have been feeling pretty good lately.  Which again misleads me to believe I will be ok without all of the meds.  I know that that is a false statement though.  And as for the docs that don't dx RA because of negative labs, shame, shame, shame.  I feel it is a lack of confidence and experience that leads them to make those devistating errors.  I am just glad I finally found the right doc.