Lesley -
I am not a doctor and cannot diagnose you, however you sound like you are experiencing what I first experienced when diagnosed with Fibromyalgia and then RA. I ran into the same problem with my first Rheumie in that he diagnosed Fibro first and, like you, I asked "what about my swollen joints". He then did the appropriate blood work, which showed the high inflamation levels, but not the RA Factor. So, after trying methotrexate and plaquenil for about 6 months with no effect, and also seeing a pain mangement doctor at the same time, I went to another rheumie who diagnosed me with Fibro and Poly-arthritis. Which means he is pretty sure it is RA, but nothing in the way of blood tests confirms it other than the inflamation.
So, this started 4 1/2 years ago and for about 1 year I was on Humira, stopping about 4 moths ago, and the Humira did help. Steroids helped too, but also caused me to gain 40 lbs in about 4 1/2 months....not HAPPY!!! But, I stopped the steroids, and have been off the Humira for 5 months now and I know that it was helping as my symptoms (Fatigue, joint pain in every joint, including my back, and joint swelling) have gotten worse. The problem is I have moved from Florida to Utah and can't get into a Rheumie until January 30th. So, in the meantime, I continue my Fibro meds and my pain meds, and try to find a job I can do with my conditions....not easy.
But, keep trying to find your answer. I have a friend who went 6 years of doctor after doctor trying to find her condition, only to find she has Lupus. So, don't give up, no one knows your body as well as you, and don't let them shut you down. You really do have to be your own advocate and make sure your doctors truly understand what you are going through every day. Good luck and feel free to contact me if you wish to discuss further.
Thanks for the reply although it has taken a little time for me to get back to you. Just to give an update. My GP has had to increase pain relief and am now taking dihidrocodiene 30mg 4 to 6 hourly and tramadol 200mg slow release at night. I stopped taking the gabapentin after 3 weeks as it was not helping and just made me wake in the morning with a headache, (felt like I had a hangover every morning) Chance would be a fine thing....... I'm still experiencing flare ups in my ankles, knees and although no redness anmd swelling can be seen my hips are just killing me. I can not take any anti-inflamitory medication as I have a bad reaction to them. I was on prednisole for a chest infection which lasted for 4 weeks and this did help my joints but GPdoes not want to continue this and the rumie was not too pleased. I took the plunge and asked my GP if he would be happy for me to go back to work and he said go back part time and see how you feel. I have gone back 3 days week, leaving the tuesday and the thursday for me to rest inbetween, let me say that its only been 2 weeks but I realy do need those two days to rest. Obviously this has made my mental health better as not sitting around talking to the four walls but have I done the right thing? Anyway, I am back to see the rhumie in 3 weeks lets see what the outcome is. If he does nothing then I do have the name of another and will seek a second opinion. Oh I also have the pleasure of sciatica left side at the present. OHH HAPPY DAYS!