My mother is 81 has RA and possible lupus arthritis which has just onset since mid-May. She's lost 10 lbs, has no appetite and now can't even walk. She has osteoarthritis and Crohn's disease for years. She can't take anything stronge than a Tylenol and refuses to take immunosuppresants, steroids, anti-inflammatory drugs or narcotics since she's allergic to medications in general due to the side effects. At this pace I am afraid she'll end up in the hospital for good or soon die. Other than this, she has nothing else and looks amazingly young for her age. Until May she was efficient, agile and alive. What should she do?