Many people do not understand lupus, so explaining your condition can minimize tension and misunderstandings. Because many times people with lupus don’t “look sick” it can be confusing for people who know nothing about the disease. It may help to first explain that lupus is not contagious or cancerous before saying that it’s a chronic autoimmune disease that can be unpredictable due to flares. Explaining the basics can help people feel more comfortable and sensitive to your needs.

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Lupus Foundation of America