I have been with my pdoc for 11 years.  I am not always happy with his treatment plan.  Many times it seems he has not heard what I am saying.  Nevertheless, he is so much better than 2 previous pdoc's that I hate to try a fourth.

Your polyester perma press ensemble reminds me of the last therapist I tried.  His office was in a shabby part of town.  There were burglar bars on all of his windows and a rusty old iron gate to the place that was kept locked when he wasn't there.  The office furniture didn't look any better. 

But what surprised me most was the way he dressed.  I was used to therapists who always tried to present themselves in the best light.  When this new therapist followed me into his inner office, I noticed his hair was a bit long and his shoes were badly scuffed.  When he sat down and crossed his legs, there was a large hole in his sock.  I only went with him that one time.

Now, though, I realize how judgmental I was being.  He had told me most of his work was with head trauma patients.  So I know he is deserving of praise and affirmation.  When we spoke that one and only session, I found him to be very compassionate and wise.  Yet I chose to rate his practice based on superficial elements.  Now I wish I had given him a true chance.

Carolyn