I've become extremely worried about my friend and think she may have schizophrenia. She is convinced her husband is possessed by a woman who practises black magic, this woman wants her husband and so gives my friend various illnesses. Many people have suggested she needs to see a psych...
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Anosognosia
Christina Bruni
Thursday, May 01, 2008 at 02:11 PM -
"I am Not Sick I Don't Need Help" excellent resource Bridget
Social Worker
Friday, May 02, 2008 at 09:46 AMHi Bridget.
I am also trying to help a friend who has sz. I was going about it all the wrong way until I read the book, "I am Not Sick I Don't Need Help." Please pick up this book ASAP and read it. Help is on the way and this book will give you hope and practical advice on how to reach your friend. This book will empower you Bridget!
Peace and love,
Marty
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Hello Bridget,
You need to read the book, I Am Not Sick, I Don't Need Help by Dr. Xavier Amador who coaches family members and friends as to what to say to a loved one who refuses treatment. Anosognosia, or the lack of aware that one is sick, leads to denial of the illness, and this denial is a symptom that up to 50 percent of people with schizophrenia have.
As we don't yet know why some people have anosognosia and others don't, that's not the point. The point is, reasoning with a loved one who truly believes he or she is not sick, won't work. You can't keep using the same tactic and expect a different outcome.
Read Amador's book, and if necessary, skip to the section where he talks you through what to do, with techniques such as LEAP and "informational interviewing."
Unfortunately, unless a person is a danger to himself or others, or you can prove to a doctor or judge that he is, your loved one won't be forced into treatment. Things often get worse before they get better.
Act now by reading the Amador book, which I have read and endorse wholeheartedly.
Best wishes to you, your friend and her husband.
Regards,
Chris
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