I was very disappointed in your slideshow re: "Signs you may be in an abusive relationship". Until a disclaimer in the last slide, all depicted victims were women, and the problem was the male. I'm an active, bright, athletic, regular guy who was married 20 years to a controlling woman who began belittling me, even in public - mistaking my generally easy going nature as passive. Eventually she began slapping and kicking as she made her points. She'd accuse me of things like cheating on her-and use it as a pretext to start fights. She was an ace manipulator-melody Beattie's works wound up pegging her. Turns out she'd been cheating since before we married, and reflecting her behavior onto me. I have learned of many men in similar situations. Your slideshow is so biased it is offensive.