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By David Robbins Thursday, May 21, 2009

I sent an email to my parents about Mike. I entitled it "Mike: the forgotten child." I told them about how I went and bought Mike clothes. The response wasn't surpising, but it made me angry.

 

My father is a cruel, callous, mean, selfish, demeaning person. He's a drunk and a abuser. I'm not finding that out for the first time. His words reconfirmed the terrible person he is.

 

Growing up dad would often yell, "I work to put clothes on your backs, food in your bellies and a roof over your heads." Thanks dad I am grateful for that. I truly am.

 

I would trade all of that for ONE I love you son.

 

I'm writing this because of anger. If I kept it inside I would explode.

 

It's been said that you can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family.

If I could pick my family Jim Robbins wouldn't be a part of it.

 

Thanks for allowing me to vent. I don't normally do it. I don't like to do it. There are times when it's neccesary.

 

Dave

doing much better
5/21/09 7:33am

David i am very sorry you receive no support from your family. After first reading your post about your family and especially your Father you made me realize that while dad and I may butt heads at times maybe our relationship is not as bad as I think it is. Thanks so much for sharing with all of us and for opening my eyes about my dad and me.

Christina Bruni, Health Guide
5/21/09 7:41am

Hi Dave,

 

I am sorry about your father, you and everyone else deserve better treatment from him.  Try to understand that if he is an unhappy man, he's only hurting himself in the end.  I know he hurts you and a lot of people still.  I am sorry about this.

 

Regards,

Christina

5/21/09 8:44am

And I think one of the bad things about it is it tends to affect you for the rest of your life.  Either because you don't learn self-respect or don't have a good self-image or anger rules your life, plus some children then pass it down to their own children.  But Dave, you haven't done that.  You have not just survived, you have thrived!

 

Carolyn

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By David Robbins— Last Modified: 10/16/10, First Published: 05/21/09