I have an intimate question that I would like to ask the community. I am 47 years old and married to a wonderful woman; we have been together for 15 years. I find it difficult to have a sexual relationship with my wife. We are close and at least best friends. I am attracted to other women and men....
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DCROY9633
Friday, December 21, 2007 at 04:54 PM
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I am 49 and female. I know you said "dreams" and not "fantasies." But I think it is perfectly normal for all men and women to have such dreams and fantasies. I am purely heterosexual, yet I have wondered what sex would be like with another woman. I have had sexual encounters with men and women in my dreams. This does NOT mean I intend to go out and have illicit sex with either men or women. I was perfectly content with sex with my husband when I was married.
If this worries you, it is something you can't just drop or ignore, so I won't tell you to do so. But I would say not to dwell on it for too long. Thank God you have a wife with whom you have a good relationship.
Carolyn
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