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Monday, September 26, 2011 concerned wife asks

Q: how do you know if someone is having a relapse of schizophrenia, my husband just had a episode 3 weeks ago, i can't get him to take his medicine, and im afraid he is having a relapse.

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Christina Bruni, Health Guide
10/ 2/11 6:35pm

See the list of schizophrenia early warning signs.

 

My first psychiatrist instituted a drug holiday in April 1992.  by July 2, 1992 I was back in the hospital and started taking the meds again.

 

The prime tip-off was that I was restless and couldn't sleep and I had insomnia.  I would wake up late as a result and get to work late.  I started to wear garish theater makeup again.

 

Little things would upset me that I shouldn't have gotten upset with.  I lost the ability to recognize fact from fiction and began to believe my paranoid thoughts.

 

So the loss of being conscious of how your thoughts are irrational was the dividing line that sent me to the hospital.

 

The paranoia returned in full-force and I was hospitalized against my will.

 

Luckily: I did not have anosognosia. I started taking the medication again and I've been in remission over 19 years because in 19 years I've taken the medication every day as prescribed and missed only one dose on the day I had a medical procedure.

 

If your husband has anosognosia and lacks the awareness that he has an illness, he will not want to take his medication because he will think he's not sick, so why should he?  In this case I recommend you buy and read the 2010 edition of Xavier Amador, PhD's book, I Am Not Sick, I Don't Need Help. This esteemed psychologist has coached tens of thousands of family members about how to talk to their loved one so he or she is willing to take their meds.

 

Because even if someone has anosognosia, he will be able to decide to take his meds if he sees a link between taking the meds and achieving a goal, like staying out of the hospital.


If it gets worse, you might have to admit your husband involuntarily to the hospital if you can make the case he is an immediate danger to himself, the criteria for admission to a psych ward in the U.S.

 

You don't want to delay if he had an episode three weeks ago.  Left untreated, his condition will worsen-and there's no guarantee it will get better.

 

Please: take whatever action you feel you need to take.  The fact that he won't take his medication is the one true signal that all is not well.  As this is the case, brace yourself for the worse.

 

Let him know you're concerned and will work together will him to get him help so that he'll feel better like his old self.

 

Because if you say he had an "episode" the fact is my dear he's had a relapse.  Call it an episode, call it a relapse, we're not going to quibble over the definition when immediate treatment is called for.  And an episode does signal a relapse is on the way.

 

Christina.

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Christina Bruni, Health Guide
10/ 2/11 6:40pm

the short answer is: he needs help and he needs help now. don't wait.

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10/ 2/11 8:24pm

thanks. he is back on medicine now, has been for bout 4 days now, still very paroind.

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11/12/11 12:20am

I agree with everything Christina said. She has alot of insight, having SZ herself. I was married to a SZ man for 17 yrs. I tried to deny what was wrong with him, and then how bad it was after I couldn't deny that anymore. I loved him more than I thought was possible but untreated SZ was very hard on our marriage. I wish I had got him help. It would have probably saved his life and our marriage. He commited suicide because he was delusional and went to meet something in his delusion. Suicide was very much against his religion, but I knew immediately that it was true because he was so so sick at the end. I'm a nurse and I know it is because of imbalalances in brain chemicals. The right med can make it balanced much much more. They do have bad side effects and that's why alot of people stop taking them. My husband took Zyprexa for about a month ( the only thing he took for the entire 17 yrs). It made him gain alot of weight and he hated it, so he stopped taking it. And he didn't think anything was wrong with him. I did see some changes in that month, he was starting to be more normal. I feel so bad for not getting him help, but he was the most God loving person I ever met in my life. I know he is in such good care now and has answers to all his questions and the things that tortured him. He was always under alot of stress, life was stressful with him. I urge you to do ANYTHING you have to to get your loved one help. Make sure he always takes his meds, even if you have to watch him swallow them. You will be helping him and yourself. Living with a SZ is so hard, but I know it can be good with meds. I know my marriage would have been alot easier. Good luck and God bless you.

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By concerned wife— Last Modified: 11/12/11, First Published: 09/26/11