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Hello blueinkentucky,   I understand your concern.   Robin spoke about contacting NAMI.   I will refer to your other question.   It is without a doubt an issue of trust that your husband has offered to meet the women he searches on the sex sites.   This has nothing to do with whether he has schizophrenia.   Some married couples are OK having what's called an "open marriage" whereby one or both partners have extramarital sex.   It doesn't sound like you are willing to have an open marriage, though.   You have the right to talk with your husband and tell him how his behavior is affecting you and that you want and expect him to change.   If somehow his behavior is related to the schizophrenia, contacting NAMI and also to see about a family support group as well as Family-to-Family is a great idea.   He may have an illness; however, acting out is not acceptable.   Please be patient as you work through what is going on.   You do not have to accept this behavior.   Call your local NAMI affiliate as soon as you can.   Regards, Chris