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Tuesday, January 24, 2012 jaymichelle asks

Q: Schizophrenic / suicide / meth addiction

my brother is a schizophrenic meth addict. he is suicidal & ive reached the end of knowing what to do. he was diagnosed last month & for the past year he has been a completely different person. all of his thoughts are evil & negative. he speaks in riddles which I dont understand. I need to know how to understand what Im dealing with & how to help my brother NOT kill himself? its consuming my mind & heart. I dont know what to do anymore. any advice or experience with dealing with a similar situation will be greatly appreciated!!! thanks
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Christina Bruni, Health Guide
1/25/12 9:10am

Go on the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention Web Site.  Call 800-273-TALK (8255), the suicide prevention hotline.

 

Most of all, your brother will need to take his schizophrenia medication every day as prescribed.  Should he need to be hospitalized, be not afraid to try to get him help.  be with him, talk with him, go on the suicide prevention web site I linked to find risk factors, warning signs and What To Do.

 

I'm sorry your brother isn't doing well, yet I would recommend you don't give up hope.  So take action, go on the prevention web site.  There's also another Web site, I can't vouch for its contents:  Suicide Prevention.

 

And I would keep in contact with your brother's psychiatrist.  he or she won't tell you what goes on in their sessions, but you can at least tell the psychiatrist what you're observing in your brother in the way of type, frequency and severity of his symptoms.

 

Christina

 

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1/25/12 4:10pm

thank you! all ur advice is greatly appreciated!!! I will call & check out the website.. again thank u :]

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1/25/12 6:11am

Hi there

 

I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. My brother to suffers from this disease. If your brother was diagnosed a month ago, I would imagine that they have put him on mediation? If so then the side effects of this disease should cease or at least get better. Has there been a change in him?

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1/25/12 2:20pm

YES crazy changes in what is happening. hes a completely different person. the problem is getting him the help he is sooo stuck on maybe not accepting he is sick?? I have just removed myself from living at home. he becomes violent & his episodes are so unpredictable. he got picked up & sent to 51/50 & they let him go 72 hrs later?? which i completely dnt understand because he is clearly unstable. he speaks in riddles & just everything that comes out of his mouth is almost demonic. hes told many people he hates himself & doesnt want to be here anymore but the problem with being there for him is even if you tell him how much u love him for some reason he still thinks everyone is against him. he started breaking into cars / stealing / drugs / he talks about voices? with ur brother is he always so negative & depressed? how far along into is he? what do u do to be there for him? growing up i had no idea so we had a good relationship. really good he trusted me & now he hates me :'( idk what else to do! hes not on anything right now because its so brand new ..were trying to get him into places but he becomes combative & got kicked out

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1/26/12 6:23am

We were so fortunate my brother started loosing it and he started removing fencing around our property we live on a fam, because he said we are keeping the good out and the bad in, he would switch lights on and off, repack cupboards. This is a horrible disease I don't need to tell you that, but I have found educating myself on what it is exactly has helped me understand him better. When you hear voices all day telling you to do things and that peoplea are out to get you, you can only imgaine how difficult it must be to live like that.

 

 

What happened to us is we phoned a phyciatrist who prescribed risperdal for him over the phone and we put it in his coffee for about 2 weeks to just get him stable and rational, so he would be in a mental place to understand we were not trying to hurt him, but trying to help him. Once he had been on the meds for these 2 weeks he agreed to go and see the doctor who spoke to him in depth about his condition and prescirbed meds andhe has been on them ever since.

 

I really do understand your fruatration because my brother was unstable for a very very long time before we managed to find someone prepared to go out of her way to help him.

 

I live in South Africa an our mental health care is in a shiking condition, if he were ever admitted to a phyciatric hospital he would never ever be released again, I hope that where you stay it is better, and you should be able to find someone who can help.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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1/26/12 1:22pm

wow! great advice, thank u so much. I tried last night to get him to go see a therapist that I know who is absolutely fabulous!! which praise GOD he has made an appt to see her this monday. I have explained to her everything before hand & so have a couple of my family members (which he doesnt know) so she is completely prepared before hand. Being an adult its hard to get him to do anything by himself so she has a plan to make him fell safe & try to get him to put himself in some kind of program! My mom would put the meds in his food as well...that didnt work but Ive never even heard of Risperdal maybe Ill look it up & see if the same thing u did for ur brother would work for mine! im sooo glad that ur brother is well & it makes me feel like there is hope :]

 

everyone I tried to talk to about this had the same answer: " there's nothing you can do"

 

i just wasnt satisfied with answer & uve given me hope by being one of those people who have accomplished overcoming this disease! uve put my mind at a bit of an ease I live in CA .. Los Angeles county so we have better options im assuming from what uve told me. God Bless u & ur family!

 

wish u guys the best of luck again thank u!!

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10/19/12 1:31am

im going thru the same thing with my husband , hs is currently in fhe hospital he besn there for almost a wrek now, but im afraid when he gets out he mighy do the same, because every time he wakes up hes irritTed and sants to start trouble in fhe hospital. he always talks about killing his fdiends who have not dont nothing to him,he always thinks i want to set him up or im cheating its so stressful.

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By jaymichelle— Last Modified: 10/19/12, First Published: 01/24/12