Any Help and advice ?

Hi...It has been a little while since I was here....Things have just been so busy and so depressing with John and all we are going through right now...What I would like to ask is if there is anyone else out there that has a young adult male they are caring for..As I am my son..I would like some input as to how you deal with differnt situations concerning the illness schizophrenia..how you are dealing with the whole thing...Any advice or help on this would be so very much appreciated...I guess you could go back to my first post here to get the details of John's illness if you would...I would be so thankful to be able to talk with others who are going through this also...I have to basicly do most everything for my son..He just turned 40 last week...It is so difficult...Thank you for any help you can give to me...softhart