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Sunday, February 28, 2010 Maggie asks

Q: What helps someone realize that they need medical help?

   My 34 year old brother suffers with schizophrenia, but doesn't think he has a medical problem.  He feels that something is definitely wrong with him, but it's induced by "my parents' control over him".  He feels that they're always spying on him and causing others to spy on him also.  He admits to hearing voices, but "my parents are putting them there". 

   We've had him admitted to the hospital and even gave a thorough description of what he's/we've been dealing with. But he knows how to tell the doctors what he wants them to know.  He's even admitted to me that he doesn't tell doctors everything because they'd think he was "crazy".  So, after a few days, he's released with problems unsolved. 

   He's very parinoid and thinks that people and cameras are constantly spying on him.

   My question is, can some of you that have received treatment tell us the best way to get him to realize that this is a sickness?  And what will cause him to WANT treatment?

 

Many Thanks!

Maggie

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Christina Bruni, Health Guide
3/ 4/10 10:31am

HI Maggie,

 

I answered this question when I posted a reply to your comment to the women's SharePost.  You most likely cut-and-pasted your comment there into a Question here.

 

Here's the short answer: You cannot convince someone they are ill however you can convince them to seek and stay in treatment.

 

Let me know that you received my reply to your other comment.  I recommended you read the Xavier Amador book, I Am Not Sick, I Don't Need Help which coaches family members on techniques to use to persuade loved ones to stay in treatment.  Buy the 2007 edition of the book.

 

Anosognosia, the lack of awareness that one has an illness, is actually a symptom of the schizophrenia that affects up to 50 percent of the people diagnosed with this illness.

 

So if you didn't think you were sick you wouldn't think you needed medication.

 

The point is not to convince him he is ill, the point is to get him in treatment.  And the Xavier Amador book will show you ways to do this.

 

Regards,

Christina

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3/ 6/10 8:34am

Thanks so much Christina! You are correct, I didn't see your previous post at the time that I posted this one. I had received one response at the time, and I guess I was a little desperate for more. Smile Also, I realize that my comments were not appropriate for her post, I didn't address her needs, I was looking for assistance.  So, I created another one thinking that I'd reach a larger audience. Now that I've gone back, I see your other post too. You actually gave even more helpful info there. 

 

I'm going out to find or order the book today. Thanks so much for your guidance. At this point we're (my family - parents included) doing all we can and praying for a miracle. You are a Godsend to us!!

 

Many Thanks,

Maggie

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By Maggie— Last Modified: 12/25/10, First Published: 02/28/10