The dancers were masters at the art of exuding sexual confidence. Off the stage, these were regular girls who hated their thighs and suffered from PMS like the rest of us. On stage, they deserved their reputations as some of the hottest girls in New York City. Those of us who have days when we feel less than sexy (and who doesn't?) can steal some of their tricks.
A note to the guys reading this: If your girlfriend will get naked only in pitch darkness or she has a "thing" about taking off her T-shirt at the beach, she may be in need of some confidence boosting. Instead of suggesting she read this article, a better plan may be to simply tell her that you think she's sexy. After all, it's always nice to hear a compliment from someone who isn't wearing a hard hat and work boots.
Rule 1: Flaunt What You've Got!
Accentuate the positive. Everyone has a feature or body part that's sexy and alluring. Discover yours and work it. If you have a gorgeous hair, play it up so that the attention will be focused on your locks rather than some other part you're not that crazy about.
Show off your favorites. If you don't think you have any, look again. Did you consider your back, neck, or ankles? Strippers know that sexiness is largely the result of feeling good about your body and exuding a confident vibe.
Rule 2: Mystery Is Good
Have you ever watched a stripper in action? Instead of taking it all off right away, she teases, leaving her audience wanting more. This is the perfect recipe for getting your partner aroused and ready for action. Give your partner a little taste of what's to come, but leave enough mystery so that he or she will be counting the hours until your next encounter.
Rule 3: Work It Out
When the gals weren't up on stage, they could often be found in the gym. Not only did they have to keep their bodies in shape to squeeze into those tight outfits, they also realized that there's a link between working up a sweat and getting your audience worked up.
Take up a sport, hit the gym, go on a hike, or just take a cue from my stripper friends and dance around your room naked to your favorite music. When you've had a good workout, your endorphins start kicking in. That natural high will only boost your sex appeal.