Rule 4: Work Your Props
Strippers are famous for their use of props, whether it's a feather boa, a strategically placed fan, or even a whip. But that's not the only kind of prop you should bring into the bedroom.

Investing in a few well-chosen sex toys such as a vibrator or a nifty pair of handcuffs can improve your sexual self-esteem. Hey, just walking into a sex shop is liberating and erotic, so imagine how you'll feel leaving the store with an entire bag of goodies. Once you get familiar with your body and how these toys can turn you on, you can tell your partner exactly what it is that floats your boat.

Rule 5: Get Groomed
The girls at Scores were fanatical about grooming, and you would be too if your job description included lap dancing. For example, they were experts on hair removal. Not only is being smooth more aerodynamic, it also made them feel more comfortable up there on stage because they didn't have to worry about errant pubic or underarm hair (if your partner finds body hair sexy, you can ignore this tip). They were just as vigilant about keeping their nails (toes and fingers) groomed and glossy. And they never met a tanning bed they didn't like.

You don't have to follow their style guidelines (in fact, sun lamps should be avoided at all costs unless you want to end up with skin the texture of a football), but if you feel sexier when you perform a particular grooming ritual, by all means, pamper yourself. You and your partner will both benefit.