Dear Miss A,

A lot of my friends getting engaged or in a serious relationship, meanwhile I am foot loose and fancy free. I don't think that I am going to meet the "one" out at a bar... any ideas on meeting some quality men in the city. I feel like I am meeting the same people over and over again. Any ideas to mix things up?

Fancy Free Nancy

Dear Fancy Free Nancy,

Thank you so much for your question. You can't continue to do the same thing and expect different results, so I agree that you need to mix things up a bit. I think that the best way to meet quality men is by following your dreams and let them come to you. What I mean is that you should take some time to think about what you want to do with your time. What makes you happy? What have you always wanted to do? Whether you've always wanted to learn how to sail, finish a marathon, give back to the community, or learn a foreign language, just do it! You will make new friends in a sailing class, running club, raising money or giving your time to a nonprofit, or by going back to school. If you aren't interested in learning how to golf, do not take a clinic simply to meet men. You will come across as a desperate and unauthentic person, and it won't work. Do what you love, and you'll be happy. And when you are happy, you will be your most attractive.

I hope that this helps! Let me know how it goes!

- Miss A