When I have intercourse it feels like the bottom of my virgina is being split,and it causes a cut type feeling ,and I can no longer go on with the act.Doctors have told me to use a lubricant,but that does not help at all,any help would be appreciated,thanks


1.) Could be your hymen breaking or stretching
2.) you're not arroused enough
It will go away after having more sex.
thank you Anonymous for your response.As far as not being arroused enough ,I doubt that is it ,my husband takes his time and gives me a climax usually before we have intercourse .And as far as having more sex we try to have sex 3 to 4 times a week,but still I thank you for the response any other ideas would be welcome.
Try to talk on a romantic subject & build up the emotion which will lead to sex. When you are having sex, you want to be on top of your husband so you can be in control of how it will be done the way you like it. DO NOT continue to have sex after you reach orgasm or you will start to feel hurt. I wish you Good Luck, & let me know if it work.
Thank you for your post ,I will try what you said ,but I think my problem is that I am older now and I probably need some kind of hormone thingy,but I am not going that way because of the cancer aspects of that .So we will keep trying different things and hope we get a break.
That sounds very unpleasant.
Laura B
HSA