After reading this post, I couldn't help but comment because I could relate to this...unfortunately. I had a booty call for quite some time - about 2 years. I did fall deeply for this person - I feel in love but had to put on a mean front to pretend this wasn't so. In the beginning, I liked him slighty before we engaged in anything. After we did our thing, the feelings developed and they didn't stop developing until it was too late - when he got a 'gf.' I was left with a broken heart, he was left with a gf and happy. Moral of the day: Don't have a booty call, you will end up in heart break in the end, I promise.
I just had the talk with him last night, no more sex with him. I can't handle it. I did cry lots after the talk and also today. We did have one last "makeout". He gave me a CD of love songs since that's what we were coincidentially listening to and I liked the songs. He told me he has a song for me, and said he loved me, again. I can see he means it too. He will still help me with whatever I may need in life and we will be friends, since that's what we were before. What's with that???