How to Avoid Being a One-Night Stand

Dreamgirl

Hi David!

Thanks for your reply to my email. I thought i wouldn't get any feedback from you and i was surprised when i got your email. Thank you so much!

To tell you the truth, i actually had a second night with him after a week of not calling me but that 2nd night in the middle of doing it, he stopped! I asked why, he said we need to get ourselves tested first for any diseases before having sex. Crazy me i was too honest with him the first night that we met and told him about my past that i have had these encounters with at least 2 or 3 different men after my separation with my ex-husband. So to make the story short, i agreed to get the tests.

Before my results came out, he said he wants to keep this thing with us as an affair and not a relationship because he said he wants to date other women and marry a virgin and have kids with her in the future. He even wants to impregnate somebody and later on tell the future wife about the kid. I told him if i was that somebody he wants to impregnate i wouldnt consent to it because im a single mom and already have a child from my previous marriage and raising another kid without a father is a no, no for me. David, i don't know why we are having this conversation on our third meeting. He even told me he doesn't know where this "us" is leading but for now no commitment, don't expect phone calls from him ahd here he is calling me almost every night. I know we're both attracted to each other and i know its too early to make that commitment. I wonder why he doesnt want to take this as a step to a relationship since he has no steady girlfriend at present. The only thing i can think of as one factor is that, i have a child from my previous marriage thats why he does not want to get involve with me. Well, i could be wrong.

Anyway, i got all my results and he said to me, "now that your results came out negative for STDs you would only have to go out with me and forget the other men." Interesting guy huh?! What do you think? (Btw, i have to thank those men i slept with they didn't give me anything i should be worried of for my next relationship, lol)

You need to run from this guy immediately.

 This guy wants to marry a virgin but, he can have sex with you?

 He's basically telling you that you're good for sex but, he doesn't respect you for a relationship.

So get away from this guy.You shouldn't be near this guy.

 I can't believe when you wrote this and I saw this, that you will have an affair with his but he can't have a relationship. He said he wants to date other women and marry a virgin and have kids with her in the future. He wants to impregnate some virgin and tell the future wife about the kid.

This is crazy.

Run, no matter how good the sex is, you will eventually get emotionally attached to this guy if you continue to have sex with him. My advice to you, run away, find somebody a lot better because you deserve a lot better than he will ever give you.