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Understanding the Confident/Nervous Guy

By David Wygant, Health Guide Tuesday, October 07, 2008
So let's say there is a guy you are attracted to whom you see all the time.  When you see him, he's always out with his friends, laughing and just having a great time with his buddies.  Every time you try to talk to him, though, he gets all nervous.   You've got to understand some...
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Anonymous
confused
2/ 5/10 1:26am

So how do you distinguish between the guy being shy or not interested?

Anonymous
Jania
11/25/10 8:58pm

What if he pops up somewhere near you, for weeks stares then look away when you look in his direction,then when you finally approach him for a conversation and him a question, he looks down, chokes, then mixes his words  up to say something unintelligible and incoherent. 

 

He seemed so uncomfortable, it made me uncomfortable, so I decided to wait until another time when he is less nervous.  I saw him later that day, and as Iwas walking pass,  I heard him clearly answered the question I had asked him earlier to the person he was talking to.  It did not make sense and at the time I did not understand who he was talking to.

 

But since this incident, he stopped I showing up around me, so I went looking for him, and saw that he spends his breaks and lunch at his desk. I don't know if I should approach him again or give him space until he feels he is ready to talk to me or maybe he changed his mind about me altogether.  Its been about a week. Thanks.

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By David Wygant, Health Guide— Last Modified: 10/26/11, First Published: 10/07/08