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Monday, November 10, 2008 Baseballtiger, Community Member, asks

Q: Why does my dick go limp?

I have been in a relationship for 5 months with this beautiful 33 yr old mother of two. I am 22 and with no kids. When we started having sex it was awesome, the best. Then lately it's happened that we would be having sex and I would be super hard and while penetrating my dick all of a sudden goes limp. No way to bring it up, no matter if she went down on me. Nothing. She feels like I'm not attracted to her and that is not the case. I have told her things about my past that  I have thought might have something to do with it but it didn't work. This limp things keeps going, 5 times already.  I'm worried... please advise

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anon, Community Member
11/11/08 12:25am

You could have a number of problems, the most obvious would be that you're not into it.  I'm not saying you're not into the girl, I'm just saying youre not into the sex at the time.  Whether it be because you're tired, the position is uncomfortable, or if it has just gotten boring.  Try to liven it up a bit and change your routine.  It's happened to me before too, you're not alone.  Also, watch what you eat.  There are certain foods that affect your erection (esp. alcohol/marijuana/cigarettes).  Hope I helped

i need help, Community Member
6/ 9/09 12:41pm

elo right my feller somkes a lot of green ande he thinks there is something wrong with his dick but i dont i no it gose down sometimes i think its beacuse he wornt into me but now i no after readin urs that it is beacuse he smoke a shit load of green an he has only come once could you please tell him there nothing wrong with him he just smoke 2 much weed x thanks hope you can help use x

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By Baseballtiger, Community Member— Last Modified: 04/17/13, First Published: 11/10/08