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Thursday, May 07, 2009 JenJenJen asks

Q: What can i do, i really miss my boyfriend and we cant see each other

Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time a few weeks ago (both 16). Now his parents have grounded him for the next month and a bit and i wanted him to come over my house for the night when it was empty and he says hes not allowed, should i ask him if this is the real reason? i keep thinking he actually dosnt want to. We dont even kiss properly in public and i really miss him =(

Weve been going out for over 5 and a half months

What can i do?

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Merely Me, Health Guide
5/ 8/09 7:59pm

Hello Jen

 

I am thinking that you will have to be patient and wait until he is allowed to see you. 

 

I want to also tell you to please use protection if you don't want to get pregnant.  You have your whole life ahead of you.  Please be careful.

 

Thank you for your question.

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9/ 4/09 7:17am

If you can resign yourself to frequent masturbation you'll be able to get past your boyfriend's grounding.

If contraception is an issue, please limit your sex to oral and anal.

My guess, though, is that he's blown you off now that he's had you.  Forget him, there are lots of other guys who will sleep with you and not get grounded.

Hand jobs will prevent pregnancy, too.

Hope this helps.

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By JenJenJen— Last Modified: 11/29/10, First Published: 05/07/09