well ive been talkin to my ex joey since july 2008 and we arent together but we still hang out and theres feelings still. he has way more feelings for me then i do for him. not to long ago he told me that he loves me still and talked about kids and all of that stuff. well my ex before him pedro started talking to me and we got an understand of the break up we never talked about until now and i see that i really want to be with him but i jus dont want to hurt joey. what do i do? i love joey with all my heart but i see myself more with my ex than i do with joey. i dont want to hurt him and i dont want to lie to him or loose him as a friend either
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Q: i care about two people what do i do so that nobody really gets hurt?
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11/17/08 7:10am
This is a tough situation no matter what happens someones going to get hurt and it sounds like unfortunately Joey is going get it it this time. Sit joey down and have a let know whats going on.Don't lead him on any more than he already has been.In leading on i'm not saying that you don't have feelings for him but hes way ahead of you on the race track and sounds like he thinks ya'll are getting back together.No matter what you do its not going to be good for him. The sooner that you let it out the less damage will be done to him and possibly you. He will be really mad at first most likely but if he truly loves and respects you he should understand you being honest.
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