During  3 nights of cheap wine and lots of beers my husband and I were having very ruff sex each night for 1 to 2 hrs long each time. He had already been in pain several days before from cuts that occur ever so often on his penis I believe from ruff oral sex. Anyway he was okay enough to go on are weekend love fest. The next morning i awoke to excrucating pain i had tears and everything. I tryed drying my vagina but i would lay dwn after with my legs spread and every time i would get wet   it would burn. Usually after ruff sex my lips and clitorus would become swollem but no swelling this time. Just the vaginal hole where the penis is inserted feels the most pain n the area below that by the anus. The rest just feels sore like when  just had my son. My husbamds sympto,s became worse then cuts more pain and now it hurts him to urinate or pull back his forskin today he said while he was attenpting to clean it because he had to cause hes not circumsized he noticed a few white bumps. No ive began to  bleed  im noy sure if its my period as my cycles been strange from my oral birth control but ive had brown blood dark red blood little clots and light watery blood all in the same day. Assumng hes being honest and he has been faithful and so have I what could this be? He also mentioned i had a white discharge watery no odor a while ago? And we tryed a condom  but i took it out cause m vagina was in lots of pain and so was he.