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Saturday, December 05, 2009 FavoringCobra, Community Member, asks


okay, my boyfriend and i had sex this morning and i bled a lot, now only half of my hymen is attached. the tip of the broken end is turning black and i cannot go to a doctor to get the rest of it cut off. how long do i have until i absolutely have to have my boyfriend tear the rest of it? doctor visit is impossible. this is the only way i can get it done. it's scaring me because its half way hanging out of my body and i dont know what to do. I tried breaking the rest of it myself but of course its difficult and it almost made me puke. i dont know whats connected where and i cannot see. please help me as soon as possible

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Paul, Community Member
12/ 6/09 12:41pm

It will eventually take care of itself as it has for billions of other women, but if it does not, you will need to see a doctor to have it surgically removed. Don't take chances with your health and your reproductive ability by doing some homemade doctoring of your own. Without an examination, no one can really tell you what to do. Doctors are trained to help you, not get you in trouble.



FavoringCobra, Community Member
12/ 7/09 10:29am

Thank you. You are the only one who has given me an intelligent answer. U would like to see a doctor, but my grandmother cannot find out and I do not have a car of my own, I would like to find a free doctor because I dont have insurance, and one that would not contact my grandmother, any ideas??


when you say take care of itself, you mean like evetually fall off or something? the tip is turning black like maybe it has lost bloodflow because of course that one peice is hanging and not connected anymore. I wont even let my boyfriend touch me right now because I dont know how it will act, if we have sex again would that help to take care of itself? I was never taught any of this and with my family situation I cannot ask them.. Thank you so much.

girlsally24, Community Member
12/11/09 7:03pm

Not a doctor, but I think it will dry up and fall off or you will likely wipe down there and see that it has disconnected on the paper.  Hope you are ok. 

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By FavoringCobra, Community Member— Last Modified: 12/26/10, First Published: 12/05/09