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I am interested by this very much! There is not a lot of information on this complex. I had a relationship with a guy and even though we were in love we broke up because of the timing in our lives. Anyways he is now with another woman and tells me that he cannot have hot sex with her as he has the whole madonna and the whore complex.    The thing that confuses me is that he was able to have hot sex with me. does this mean he never loved me? or is it not about love but more about commitment? I asked him how come he could have hot sex with me and not with her and he said because I dont make his meals for him.   Does this mean that it becomes hard for him to have hot sex etc once they are in the type of committed rship where she looks after him, cleans for him and becomes the madonna? but say she didnt live with him, didnt cook for him etc but he was in love with her would he still be able to have hot sex with her? or is it as soon as u fall in love that this becomes too hard? or is it once your committed or sumfin?