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Q: How can I make sex more enjoyable for me when my husband wants to have sex?

I am 24 years old and me and my husband have been married for 4 years and 3 months after we were married my father passed away, I started nursing school, my grandmother died a year later, and on top of all this I was working full time. I have alot of stress in my life and when my husband brings up having sex I just have NO desire. I want to get things back the way they were before my life started falling apart. My husband is my best friend and this has become something that is trearing us appart instead of making us closer. I have tried to talk to my doctor about my lack of a sex drive and she just tells me to try to have "fun" with it. That was so vague that it frusted me more than helped. I am at the point that I feel that this is starting to wear at our marriage and I am so afraid that I may loose him. If anyone could please help or just provide some good advice then it would be more than appreciated.

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10/25/08 7:47am

i would say you should treat yourself such as new wardrobe,,llinguire,,candy,,spa treatment,,gym,,bright lights or candles,, new sheets,, and some antidepressants can lower your sex drive so you may want to look into that.  just some ideas :)

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By little country— Last Modified: 12/25/10, First Published: 10/19/08