we saw a marriage counsellor about 10 years ago and it helped for about 6 months then it was back to normal. We have not had sex in about 3 years now and I no longer think of my wife sexually. We have been together 26+ years. Almost a year and a half ago she told me 6 times in a 5 week period if I wasn't happy to just leave or asked why I stayed. We have a teen daughter and she is the reason I didn't leave at that time. During that 5 week period I felt a snap or a light switch or however you want to describe it. I surrendered myself to the fact that this was how things were going to be from now on. I have had a change of attitude and basically I don't care about very much anymore except my daughter of course. About six weeks ago my wife and I were in the middle of one of our usual arguements and she came right out and asked my what was wrong with me. I hesitated to answer and she persisted and even after I told her she didn't want to know she kept persisting and I told her I still loved and cared for her but was no longer in love with her... Know she wants to know what I'm going to do about it. I know it is not fair to keep her waiting for an answer but I don't know what to do... I like how I am but not sure if this is a normal feeling and why... or is it a phase or mid life crisis? I am not a dreppressed or troubled man just don't want to screw up my life and those lives around me if this going to go away... Help please