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Saturday, December 20, 2008 CataGwen asks

Q: I am 24,work hard and have a boyfriend that maybe works one or two days a week.We live together.

I pay most or if not all of the bills,he gives me a little money here & there.I am fet up,this is not about love anymore.I feel like I can not love someone who does not want to pull their own weight in life.He is 28 years old,he says he is sick,doesn't feel good and what not.I want to go about this in a good way,I want him to leave ASAP! How do I get him to leave?

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12/20/08 11:31pm

well i live with my boyfriend im 18 and hes 33.he does all of the work and i take care of the cleaning, cooking, and whatever he needs or wants me to do. try and talk to your boyfriend about doing most if not all of the house work since you make al of the money in the house. try to work it out before you kick him out. because i kno youre gonna miss him when you do it. so try to talk to him and get him to understand that he needs to help make it easy on you so when you get home from work you dont have to do nething but relax or for him to get a job. theres no reason he cant work at like a wal mart or mcdonalds if he doesnt like hard work. i keep the house and the animals in order while my boyfriend works and when he gets home he sits down and eats and all is good so try to work something out. i know you feel like goin off on him but it doesnt hurt to try. i hope it works out for you.

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12/21/08 6:16pm

Tell him to pay up or pack up. Nuff said. This relationship is not healthy for you financially, and that will eventually hurt the love

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By CataGwen— Last Modified: 12/27/10, First Published: 12/20/08