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Q: how do you find the g-spot?

My girlfriend and i are stuck in a rut with our sex lives at the moment, we both get nervous when it comes to oral foreplay and sex..i really want to know how to satisfy her by giving her an orgasm every time, because once i know shes enjoying herself it allows me to relax and get lost in the moment too. I was just wondering if you had any tips for helping my girlfriend to climax e.g. how best to stiimulate the clitoris, how to find the g-spot, and what i could do during sex to help satisfy her?

 

 

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11/ 5/09 6:05pm

Hello

 

There are plenty of guides...if you will on the Internet as far as different sexual positions and ways to achieve orgasm.  But honestly I am thinking that perhaps the nervousness comes from putting too much pressure on orgasm.  Orgasm is just a small part of intimacy.  Enjoy the process of getting close.  And when it comes to pleasing your partner the best thing you can do is to ask her.  Ask her what feels good and what she likes.  Everyone is different and you can find some supposedly wonderful sexual technique but your girlfriend might not like it.  So talk to her.

 

I wish you the best of luck.  Thank you for your question.

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