My hubby recently went and had a vasectomy behind my back a month ago , I found out Christmas Day when he tried getting intimate with after weeks , I immediately felt something different down there , a small puncture hole where the doc made the incision . He regrets doing it after we discussed it in depth, we could have just taken other alternative measures , had we talked it over first , kind of late for that , We had agreed to go back to the doc and see what our options are for reversal. I only wish he waited more than a week after seeing the doc to go forth with it. For me it feels so permanant , this could break up our home and family which we just started. Any advice on the reversals , does anyone know how long we have to wait until we can do a reversal after the vasectomy and how long for recovery time , will his sperm ever be normal again or did he destroy his reproductive system forever??