I had my period after 30days, it usualy come within 26 to 28 days, first day of my period was 19th Dec. I had sex on 3rd Jan.Then after 7 days I had started paining which is excatly like pain before my period, then on 13th night i had brown discharge & early morning i started bleeding,it was just for 2 days.What was that ? I never had brown discharge, If it is my peroid then  i got my period after 26days, so what will be the most fertile days for this month, I am desperate to get pregnant.Pls. ans me soon.

Hi Jemima.  It sounds like your Jan. 3 lovemaking may have been a day after you became fertile.  A woman can conceive for up to about a day after she ovulates, and becomes fertile.  I'm counting 14 days from the start of your period on Dec. 19.  That would put fertility at Jan. 2.  If you are not already carrying a baby, I'd suggest next month making love more than once around your fertile time. 

Your brown discharge doesn't sound like a normal period.  It could be implantation bleeding.  If so, that means that you bleed a little bit a few days after you got pregnant, when the baby attached to the inside of your womb.  So, unless you have started your period by now, its possible you could be pregnant.  I suggest doing two things.

One, take a home pregnancy test in a week.  Two, make sure you make love and get lots of your lover's seed inside of you during Jan. 27, 28, and 29, in case you just had a light period.

Good luck. 

Thanks for your kind information

Hi Jemima.  You might consider getting a basil thermometer to check your morning temperature as you get up.  Your body temperature will rise about 1/2 a degree when you are fertile.  This might help time your lovemaking better, and also tell you if you are ovulating at all.

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I had period on 14th Jan. after 27 days, I had love making on 20th, 24th, 26th & 28th but i am not pregnant yet. I have started bleeding today on 8th Feb. it is after 26 days. Why it happended ? What are the chances for this month ? I have notice my period is coming usally on 26,27 or 28 days, can i consider it as regular cycle ?

Hi Jemima:

It looks like your next fertility date would be February 22, which means lovemaking during Feb 20, 21, 22 and 23.  How cooperative is your lover, and how often is he willing/able to give to seed?  I'd try for each day this time. 

Have you considered getting the basil thermometer and taking your body temperature each morning?  It can tell you when you are fertile.  You may be fertile at a slightly different time than the standard 14 days before your next period starts. 

Looking back, you would have been fertile on January 25, so lovemaking the day before would have given you a good chance.

Its possible that your fertility window is real short, perhaps as short as hours.  If so, you may actually have to make love on the day of fertility, and even within a specific portion of a day. 

Keep trying Jemima!

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I have taken  5 days antibiotic suggeted by gynechologist, i have to go for pelvic sonography for primery infertility, which would be a great day for the accurate result,i am affarid of it what is it ? my period is going on  on 3rd day if i am going would it be fine ? 

Hi Jemima:

It sounds like you are in the period now, but that it started a little bit early.  That doesn't seem like a problem.

It also sounds like you 've had a vaginal yeast infection or something and are on antibiotics. 

Its good that your doctor is doing the sonogram.  This may tell you if you have a fertility problem, and if so, what you can do to reduce or end the problem.  The sonogram isn't anything to fear.  It doesn't hurt.  Its like an X-ray, only better.  It lets them see your female parts.  When are you going for the sonogram?  Good luck.

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I am going for it today itself, today is 3rd day od my period.

One more thing i want to know, I am a coffee drinker, I usually have 2 cups of a coffee everyday, Can it harm my fertility ?

Hi Jemima:

About coffee, I've heard of studies that say caffeine is bad for a woman trying to conceive, but good for a guy.  2 cups a day I doubt would make a difference one way or the other.  I don't know how much stock to take on it.  You might search the internet for articles, but beware not all may be accurate. 

How did your tests come out?

Good luck!

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I had my test, It came with a fibroid. I have to see the doctor yet

Fibroid can be the reason for infertility ?

How to remove this ?