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Sunday, November 16, 2008 Naive@53 asks

Q: My boyfriend doesn't use a condom during anal sex and then wants vaginal and oral afterwards.

I know this is an unsafe practice for me.  I don't know how to approach the issue with him.  We just began our sexual relationship last week.

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11/17/08 6:48am

That is a great way to get vaginal infections not to mentions its not exactly where you want your mouth after it being in there unprotected. You always want to have protection for anal sex there are so many things in there just don't need to be on the penis and that don't need to be in you from him.

The best aproach would be my way or the highway aproach but let him know camly exactly how you feel about it if he respects you hopefully he will be understannding about the situation.

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By Naive@53— Last Modified: 12/26/10, First Published: 11/16/08