can it really be love when he acts on again-off again? he kisses me back when i kiss him, but says not to, and says let's be friends, but also says i wish i could just go ahead and marry you ,then grow to love you, he has tried to be intimate, i am glad he hasn't, he wants to go onand on about his ex-wife and ex- girlfriend, i do not want to lose this guy, even as a friend.


